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Hi There!! You can call me Jae, Silver, Kitten, or SilverKitten lol... I'm a 20 year old Female from GA and I love to read. I will try to answer any questions to the best of my ability- thanks for stopping by!!

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okay i need some new hairstyles (not haircuts styles but hairdos) does any one know any websites which you dont have to log in to or download and does anyone know how to have scrunchy curls (or whatever) without using gel and how do you do it with a curling iron because i tried and they are just like ringlets! okay i know i asked alot but thanks!

I don't know for sure because my hair won't hold curl to save my life lol- but couldn't you do the loose ringlets- then like pull them apart and shake your hair around to let it fall a little? sorry if that's stupid- I tried... TAKE CARE!

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Ok, well i basically have two questions.
The first is about my heart. Sometimes when im standing and i twist my body back and fourth, i hear my heart grinding.. anybody know what thats about?

And secondly, sometimes i dream while i'm awake. No, not day dreaming. It's like an actual dream that i'm not controlling playing it my mind. Sometimes it's like watching a movie. Does anyone know what that's about?

Thanks..!

ok yeah I have no clue about the heart Im sorry!!

however with the dreams I do the exact same thing sometimes- I was telling one of my friends and she just stared at me like I was crazy lol... but all I can tell you is that you most certainly aren't the only one and if you's like to further discuss things or talk things out you can email me at jroberson25@yahoo.com I hope this helps in some way!! TAKE CARE!!

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i have an essay/ report to doo on dieting and im doing crash dieting in a few paragraphs.
what are some foos that people usually mostly focus on when crash dieting?

thanks

what about yogurt or maybe like a candy bar or popcorn like just those things not all of them together... hope this helps!! TAKE CARE!!

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hes been my best friend since school started.. now he seems more than a friend..he sends me sweet text messages and IMs but at school its not like that.. he only shows the way he feels through written words but he totally has me in a way nobody has made me feel before, he's my date to my banquet next week

i want so bad to be his girlfriend how do i show him without words that i like him? how do i get him to feel more comfortable in person instead of the computer and talking on the phone? i sound like a complete dork i know but i've been crazy for this guy even before we were best friends...

I recommend writing your real feelings in words too- tell him you just don't understand why he won't try any of these things in person. Or after a sweet message write back and say "where is that in person?" lol... or next time before you part ways you could try for a hug or touch his shoulder- something suddle to start out with... and see where it leads!! Hope this helps and that you find what you're lookin for- TAKE CARE!!

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i met my my man about 10 months ago, and things between us love-wise couldnt be better. no guy has ever treated me as good as he does, and i cant say ive ever been this happy before. he would, and does do anything in the world for me. and i love him with all my heart. our families are really close, and have been since WAY before we were both born. we've got so many things in common, and we plan on getting married in a few years. but he's been doing horrible in school, and although i do give him credit for occassionally getting a 'C' or a 'D' instead of an 'F'- he got his progress reports back, and they were HORRIBLE!- his parents are taking away his car, and are making him quit his job in the hopes that maybe he'll get his act together. i cant take it anymore! i have tried SOOOO hard to talk some sense into him. ive tried telling him that he's ruining 'our' future by getting bad grades. i ask him all the time what kind of job he expects on landing with grades as bad as they are, and he ALWAYS tells me he's trying, but that he doesnt wanna talk about it- and every progress report is no much better than the last. i really dont know what to do. his mother is forever telling him that im gonna leave him if he doesnt get it together, because i can do 'so much better'- and im getting curious as to if i really can. someone PLEASE tell me what to do. both male and female opinions would help on this one. thank you soooo much. i'll rate high on ALL ANSWERS- good or bad.

have you considered he might have a learning or atention dissability? or maybe he needs tutoring... heck maybe for dates ya'll could help him study (it's not much fun but if you really stick with it, it might be beneficial to both of you) or maybe positive reinforcement- I don't know how dates go for ya'll but maybe offer him- if you get a "B" (or start with "c" and move up) on your next test I will pay for our next movie or dinner or something... or again if your helping him study ask him questions and for every correct answer he can have a kiss- the more difficult the question the better the kiss... and so on... I hope this helps if I think of anything else I'll let you know- hey you might try looking up motivation techniques on google- GOOD LUCK & TAKE CARE!!

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ok so lately after i dry then straighten my hair and go to brush it and its really staticy and starts like sticking up..is there anyway to stop it from sticking? thanks so much!!

yes dryer sheets work but they left my hair a lil greasy... I like Static Guard- spray on brush (don't make the brush wet with the stuff) and then comb through your hair... it really wroks well they even make small cans for your purse- only one problem... this stuff kinda smells wierd- you might even think it stinks... but yeah that goes away after like 5 mins or if your worried spray your perfume or body spray into the air and let some float into your hair... Hope this help!! Take Care!

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approximately a month ago my Boyfriend and I were foolin around and while we've never had sex we got a little carried away... to sum it all up he ended up cumming on my butt- we tried to clean it off as soon as possible but technically it is possible that some could have slid down to my vagina... does anyone think that I might get pregnant- I was off my birth control and havent had my period for two months (always been screwed up without my birth control) but he never penetrated me- what do you think?

Hi Guys I just wanted to say thank you for all of your answers I took a test and it said negative... I just wanted to hear the thoughts of other people- I really appreciate your opinions... oh and yes I know my butt isn't attached to my vagina- however I was more worried of some ya know... slipping down or dripping down ya know? again thank you for all of your advice!! hpe all of you have a wonderful day!!
~SilverKitten~

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