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Yikkkkers
Oh Jesus. The other night I did some stuff that was kind of close to cheating on my boyfriend at a concert. He found out and got really mad. At first he was mad because I was denying it. Finally I couldn't help it and told him what I did. And he cried and took it real bad. Now he doesn't trust me and thinks I'll cheat on him. How do I get his trust back?
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Just try and become more closer to him.....show him a good time and show him that he can trust you....you shouldnt have done that in the first place but u cant change the past.
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Hey,
First, let him know that what you did was Stupid, Wrong, and appologize alot. It's gonna take a while to get his trust back. But really what are you expecting? What if HE did that to you? This is a really iffy situtation. I say, talk to him about why you did w/e you did. Maybe he's not fulfilling some desire that you need. Or Maybe, your curious for something new. If it is that case, then I think you 2 should take a breather from each other. Not a break up, just some time to realize how much you love each other. Hope I helped :)
♥Momo
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'Kay. So you pretty much fucked up the entire relationship. Rate me whatever you want. But that boy of yours didn`t deserve to be treated like that. I`m just surprised he hasn`t broken up with you yet.
If you do want his trust back, you have to really talk to him. But I don`t think that`ll work since he probably hates you now. Sooorrrrryyy.
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Go ahead and rate me a 2, but I'm straightforward, so what I say is what I mean.
You don't DESERVE to have his trust back. First you cheat on him & then you LIE about it. If I was him, I wouldn't trust you either, and if I was him, I'd dump your ass and go find someone better. He's better off without a cheater.
&TiNA;
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hey there "YIKKKKers", I think trust is something that takes a long time to build. So right now you might be kind of powerless because the ball is in his court. All you can really do is stand by his side and just let him know you are there and nothing like that would ever happen again. It might take awhile but it just depends on the person for how long it will take for him to totally have your trust again. So dont be surprised if he suddenly wants to know eveyrthing you do. Its just something that comes with the territory. So if you really want to be with him just be patient with him, and try and talk with him about it.
hope i helped
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well first of all you should probably make a promise to yourself that you are never going to do something like that again, and then it will take a while but you need to show that you want his trust back and show that you know that you made a mistake, so it may take a while but slowly he will start to trust you more, but i mean you cant blame him for not trusting you, so really just be patient and eventually he will come to trust you
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ive been in the same situation before. accually it was like 2 weeks ago. you just have to straight tell him that you know you hurt him and you want his trust back so bad. and that the other boy ment nothing to you and you were just being selfish. you might not get his trust back but you just have to keep trying to convince him that you wont do it again. and i know it will be hard not to because its hard not to cheat on my bf now but you just have to think of who is more importnat to you. and who you want to be with.
hope i helped..
<3333 ::;kayla::;
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To be quite honest, it will probably be hard to get his trust back, since you at first denied what was the truth. You are probably going to have to prove yourself, and talk to him A LOT about what happened and how bad you messed and sort of confess your love for him and just try to work it out and hope for the best. Sending him a lot of "I'm Sorry" things (like guys do to girls in the movies) might ease things if you can show that you really are very sorry for what happened.
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