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My name is Monique. Feel Free to call me Momo. I am 14, female, I go to OCMS. I like hanging out w/ friends, shopping, giving makeovers, partying, and listening to music. I am a Vegetarian, and I strongly support Gays, Bi's, Lesibians, and Humane Rights. My favorite TV show of all time is The L Word. Sorry, I'm really trying to get a picture of me up here, but I cant get one less than 15 K's. But I'm trying.

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I was at this dance last night and all of a sudden there were like five guys staring at my ass, and trying to look up my skirt. They were also touching my butt. What does this mean? What do they want? Do they like me?

Hey,
It means there perverted little horndogs trying to get some. Sorry to say this, but they most likely dont like you, but they like your ass. Some guys are just so deperate to see something naked they'll do anything they can to ge to it. I say stay away from those perverted little freaks, and find a guy that'll like you for yourself, not your assets. Hope I helped :)
♥Momo

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Guys and girls if you can answer this. What is your favorite kind of underwear on a girl and why?

Hey,
I actually think lacey panties, boyshorts, and thongs are the cutest on my lil bum bum. Boyshorts are my favorite though, b/c they show some cheek(no not the ones on your face), plus they give you that cute little femine booty. Hope I helped :)
♥Momo

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okay, i've started excersciing down in my basement every day and well, i need some motivation. i'm going to amke a poster of all the things i ahve to do with a list of excerices to do. I'm going to put up some inspirational quotes up there. but i need some ideas. Anything that will get me hyped up, and will get my energy risiing and will amke me want to lose all my extra flub. Any pictures, quotes anything

Hey,
First great for you! i wish I had some willpower to say, ya know what, I'm gonna work out. Congrats to you. But to answer your question, say get posters of people you really admire. It can be anyone. A celeb, your dog, ur uncle's mother's sisters fathers cousin Amy. Just some one that makes you wanna push further to being a happier, healthier, and not to mention skinnier you. Just Remember: Only you can pump yourself up. Only you can say alright, I'm gonna do this. A poster or quote, or music that makes you wanna move can do it. You do. Hope I helped :)
♥Momo

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18/f. I was molested when I was little, and every once in a while feelings from that time surface and I get very upset and depressed. It's not so often - maybe once or twice in a year, but I don't want that time to keep haunting me for the rest of my life, I want to move beyond the past. Does anyone have any advice on how I can do that?

Hey,
Omg, I totally an relate w/ you. I wasn't molested at age 8. But I was sexually assaulted at age 12. I still get a few nightmares about it. I say that, you try a therapist. Now I know that it seems kind of drastic but you can't get rid of something w/o talking about it. Therapists are there to help you, and talk you through your traumatic event. I ensure you that once your whole therapy session is over, you'll have a new outlook on life and you'll be able to move on. Hope I helped :)
♥Momo

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Hey!!
I was just wondering, if anyone could tell me the different between regular Acrylic tips & Solar Nails?

Thanks. :)

Hey,
Umm I wish I could answer your question, but I have no idea wtf Solar Nails are. I do know that acrylics are when you get tips glued to the tips of your nails, and the ppl doing your nails take a paint brush and "paint" over tope of them w/ a hardening nail solution called acrylic. Hope I helped :)
♥Momo

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Shit hook! What awful luck. My choir is having an opera performance a week from now, which I have worked the whole year to perform in, and I have a cold! Not exactly a cold; my vocal chords are clogged with mucus. Does anyone know any active solution besides Robitussin (man, that stuff tastes like poison) that will restore my voice in time for the concert?

Anyone who says tea with honey and/or cough drops will get a 1.

Hey,
When I was clogged, I used Mucinex. They're pills so they have no taste, plus their fast-working. So you'll be able to breathe and sing. Just Remember: When you first take it, your gonna cough alot b/c all the mucus and phlem are breaking apart and it has to get out some way. But afterwards you'll be good. Also, even though your going to hate me for saying this, you really should drink tea w/ honey while your taking the pills b/c it keeps your chest all cleared til the Mucinex takes full affect. DO NOT take any cough drops, halls, or anything like that b/c while your coughing it could slide down your throat and choke you. hope I helped :)
♥Momo

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Which seasons of 7th heaven are out on DVD so far?

Hey,
Seasons 1 and 2. hope i helped :)
♥Momo

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Oh Jesus. The other night I did some stuff that was kind of close to cheating on my boyfriend at a concert. He found out and got really mad. At first he was mad because I was denying it. Finally I couldn't help it and told him what I did. And he cried and took it real bad. Now he doesn't trust me and thinks I'll cheat on him. How do I get his trust back?

Hey,
First, let him know that what you did was Stupid, Wrong, and appologize alot. It's gonna take a while to get his trust back. But really what are you expecting? What if HE did that to you? This is a really iffy situtation. I say, talk to him about why you did w/e you did. Maybe he's not fulfilling some desire that you need. Or Maybe, your curious for something new. If it is that case, then I think you 2 should take a breather from each other. Not a break up, just some time to realize how much you love each other. Hope I helped :)
♥Momo

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okay theres this kid that i really like ..
we went out before but i didnt really like him
awhole lot when we were going out which was in the summer.
so like last week we started liking eachother and stuff again.
then he went out with this girl named Taylor.
i still liked him a lot tho.
then they broke up and my best friend started to like him.
well he likes her now and not me but i still really like him.
i think she likes him and someone else too.
but i dont know what to say to him or what to do.
please help.

Hey,
Well your case is pretty "original". If this gy really liked you, then he'd let you know, instead of flirting/ dating every other girl he meets. Sorry, to tell you, but it sounds like this guy has moved on, and you should too. Guys hate it when a girl lingers onto the past after it's over, it's just over. :( When us girls are still trying to chase this guy were so madly in love w/ even though the guy obviously could care less, it makes us look pathetic. I say, find someone else who is into you. You don't need that one guy to "complete" you. Hope I helped :)
♥Momo

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I have big bladder control problems...and its starting to interfere with my life...any suggestions? -MaryAnn Sigona

Hey,
I kinda have the same problem as you. But my bladder issue isn't as majour. I say look up some doctors in your area, or go to the pharmacy and look for bladder control pills. Also, if you feel like peeing, then go pee! DO NOT hold it in, b/c that just makes matters worse. Hope I helped :)
♥Momo

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I have really long kinda straight black thick hair. It's always in either a high pony and plait or a plait just like that. At home I have it loose when I've just finished blow-drying it but most of the times it's in buns. Messy ones look really good but they only stay for a while and I rarely remember how I tied it for school and it come like 1 in 10! I've tried locating these hairstyle sites but they don't have my hair lenght and it's really stressing cause it has this show in school and I wana show everyone I have this wild different side to me!! Thanks Alot

Hey,
Umm, I'm not entirely sure what your question is, but I'll try and guess haha.
Well I say that you head to the Beauty Salon, and ask them to "thin it out". So that way it won't be as thick. Also ask for long layers, so you can have more versatile styles. (long layers are usually cuter b/c short layers tend to create Mullets-EWW) And if you really want to get a wild side, try lighten your hair colour, or get high-lights. Hope I healped :)
♥Momo

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can someone please tell me what the difference is between credit and debit? thanks.

Hey,
Credit-Money you can keep using... til' the bill comes anyway
Debit-Money straight from your account.
hope that helped :)
♥Momo

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ok...so me and this guy lets call him "bob" were going out, and i broke it off..but i stil liked him.. so anyway we started talking and we immediatley started flirting, and welll i just didnt want a boyfriend. so we would just sit there and talk about stuff, and then one day, me and my friend lets call her "sally".me and my friend sally want to play a prank on him. so we do, and he gets mad at sally..but doesnt get mad at me.. (hes dated sally before) and then the next day, me and bob talk it out and he asks why i dont want a boyfriend and i tel him cause im scared someone will hurt me...but i mean i really love bob.so i decided ok i'll go out with him.. he said he loved me and i believed him and i loved him...so he asked me out and i said yes,,and then everythign was going really great, but we didnt see each other that often cuz we went to different schools..and then he sent me an email saying that he just wanted to be friends,..and i was bummed out..like literally cause he promised he wouldnt hurt me..and then not even a week later hes going out with sally...and i love bob, i really do, but he doesnt know it...so how can i make him see that sally will never love him as much as i will, and that i will do anything for him..and that i want him back


by the way im 13/f... and ill rate huge. plz help.

Hey,
You know what, your 13, you really shouldn't be looking or falling in love. Your supposed to have fun! Being free, not being tied down. If "Bob" really loved you, like you love him, Then he would come to you. Chasing a guy should just be beneath you. Besides you did say you didn't want anyone to hurt you, but your letting yourself be hurt by being so upset about "Bob". And as for Miss "Sally" she's obviously no friend, or a good one anyway. If she knew you had these feelings for "Bob" then she shouldn't have dated him. Friends don't do that to each other. I say, get a new love interest. Forget "Bob", you really don't need him. Hope I helped :)
♥Momo

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does that Hollywood Diet drink that's suppose to make you lose 10 pounds in 48 hours actually work? has anyone tried it or know someone that's tried it?

Hey,
My mom tried that. I tried some of it, but it is truly sickening. I mean eww, u might as well be drinking your own urine. Yes, It actually does make you lose 10 lbs in 2 days... If you don't eat. That's the catch, if you eat then it takes longer to work, so you'll buy more. I think the best, and safer way to lose weight is the Diet Patch. Now that really does work. That catch is that you have to excercise. Hope I helped :)
♥Momo

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Well, I've been a vegetarian for 3 days (ya, i kno. Not that long) But I'm trying really hard, but my grandmother (who is a phenomonal cook) made steak and i ate it, b/c she thought I didn't like her cooking. I feel so bad. What should I do!?!?

-Wandering Eyes

Hey,
I'm a fresh vegetarian too, and I know how it feels to smell all the food that you used to love. But for me, I think that it's just easier to remember that, That poor, helpless animal was slaughtered to be on your plate and into ur tummy. I mean seriously, would you want to grow up, just to know that you'd end up in someones stomach?? Of course not. To keep myself in line, I go to PETA and watch a few of the video's so then I won't want any of that disgusting meat. But just remember, your new to vegetarianism and it's gonna be kindahard at first. But just think of all the animals your helping. And Your not alone. Theres tons, millions, BILLIONS of people turning down the meat. Hope I helped :)
PS, Congrats on choosing Compasion over Killing!
♥Momo

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Well you know i like sam and i tryed everything. Its just like the stories where you go for the girl and they dont know and by the time you do they you have moved on and forgot that you liked them. Can you tell me should i try or just forget it all??????

Hey,
I think maybe your a little too obsessed, and that turns a girl off... WAY OFF. Try not thinking about her so much. Get a new love interest, and if Sam really liked you, then she'd come to you. You want to make her jealous, w/o being obvious, and w/o using some innocent girl for revenge. All I can really say is, if Sam wanted to date you, let her come to you. Hope I helped :)
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I am 21 yrs old and have been dating this guy for 3&1/2 yrs now (started my senior year of highschool) and I love him very much, but for the last year or so Ive gotten to the point where I just don't know if I can see us together forever anymore (like all girls dream) and am wondering if I should stay or go. We have been getting into alot more fights, way more easily than before and most of them are due to the fact that he is obsessed with video games and puts them ahead of hanging out with me all the time. Lately, hes gotten into this new game that has quests with alot of people on certain days of the weeks; scheduled quests. And he decides to not hang out with me and play instead even though its a friday night which is one of my nights off (no college the next day or work). We rarely see each other the way it is this semester due to classes and work and homework that this is ruining my time with him and it bugs me how he doesn't care. Even when we do hang out, when I come over to his house I have to get him off his game and its hard work. I just don't feel like a priority anymore, and because of this I get angry easier and then make him mad and we get into fights. He thinks I nag on him too much and I think he doesn't prioritize me enough. I love him sooo much, hes very honest and true to me, but I'm to the point where I'm jealous of a game?! This just doesn't feel right. The only other thing (other than his good points) stopping me from breaking it off with him is the fact that we have a class together and i don't want to have this stuff affect my grades and I am very 'addicted' to him (i love him soo much and dont know how to live without him anymore). Should i stay With him? Should i break it off? If so, when? Thanks for any advice you can give me.

Hey,
I think that you two have been together for so long, that you 2 need a break from each other. Not Breaking up, just chill out from each other for a while. People always forget how great something is, until they've lost it. So if you two take a little break then he'll realize what a jerk-off he has been and he'll want you back! If you love him, then this is a great solution. If your questioning if you reall love him, then maybe its time for a split-up. Until one of you realizes how much you love and need each other, your good as done. Hope I helped :)
♥Momo

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Bckgrd Info: 16/f

Well theres this guy at my school, named Matt. He's the SWEETEST guy ever!... online. We talk online, and he flirts with me alot, and tells me I'm so hott and stuff. But when we are at school he completely ignores me! I'll say hi to him and he walks away. But online he says he didnt see me. Should I ignore him, or keep talking to him?

~Cheyanne

Hey,
I think that if Matt is soooo great to you online, why is he rude to you face-to-face? Thats not a good friend whatsoever. This guy, Matt, sorry to tell you, but He sounds like a real jerk. You don't need him. To answer your question, I say you delete him from your buddy list and ignore him, like he does you. hope i helped :)
♥Momo

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Mk... so tomorrow I'm going to hang out with a bunch of my friends at one of their houses. Usually I wouldn't really care about what I wear when I'm with them, but tomorrow there's supposed to be a few guys I've had my eyes on coming too. I know when you start liking someone you're supposed to be yourself and just act normal, but I atleast want to make a good impression. Any tips on a few cute things that maybe you guys would wear?

Thanks in advance.
14.F.Tx

Hey,
I personally would try something, cute, new, and trendy. I say Ripped Jeans, a light blue cami, w/ a Denim Jacket. And just to make it funky add some chunky bracelets. Hope I helped :)

♥Momo

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i am 15, a girl, and i am bi. however, i never know if a girl is a lesbian or not, or bisexual. especially the truley feminin ones. how do i tell with out embaressing my self and having to ask them if they are interested in girls or not. is there any underage gay bars i can go to in la?

Hey,
Well I can't help you with the gay bars part. But i can tell you, try going to some parties and flirt.(don't be too forward, u dont wanna scare them off) Just little things like, "U look hot today", or "Wanna hangout later?" The great thing about being a girl, is that we can call each other whores, sexy beasts, sit on each others laps, hug, and still be COMPLETELY STRAIGHT. Just be yourself, and try not too push yourself on them. Maybe hint around, if they're gay or not. The best advice i've ever when I asked a friend of mine a question like this is, Invite a crush over for a sleepover, and just kinda play around and be like, "have you ever kissed a girl" don't be too serious b/c then the mood might not be as fun. Hope I helped :)
♥Momo

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