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ok...so me and this guy lets call him "bob" were going out, and i broke it off..but i stil liked him.. so anyway we started talking and we immediatley started flirting, and welll i just didnt want a boyfriend. so we would just sit there and talk about stuff, and then one day, me and my friend lets call her "sally".me and my friend sally want to play a prank on him. so we do, and he gets mad at sally..but doesnt get mad at me.. (hes dated sally before) and then the next day, me and bob talk it out and he asks why i dont want a boyfriend and i tel him cause im scared someone will hurt me...but i mean i really love bob.so i decided ok i'll go out with him.. he said he loved me and i believed him and i loved him...so he asked me out and i said yes,,and then everythign was going really great, but we didnt see each other that often cuz we went to different schools..and then he sent me an email saying that he just wanted to be friends,..and i was bummed out..like literally cause he promised he wouldnt hurt me..and then not even a week later hes going out with sally...and i love bob, i really do, but he doesnt know it...so how can i make him see that sally will never love him as much as i will, and that i will do anything for him..and that i want him back
by the way im 13/f... and ill rate huge. plz help.
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At this age, guys can be lame. Your 13 you have plenty of years to find that fish in the sea. Evidently "bob" wasnt your little fishie. About that sally thing, thats just messed up. Maybe he broke up with you, for sally? Don't go back out with him, he's not worth it even if you do love him. Good Luck
-Brina
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Hey,
You know what, your 13, you really shouldn't be looking or falling in love. Your supposed to have fun! Being free, not being tied down. If "Bob" really loved you, like you love him, Then he would come to you. Chasing a guy should just be beneath you. Besides you did say you didn't want anyone to hurt you, but your letting yourself be hurt by being so upset about "Bob". And as for Miss "Sally" she's obviously no friend, or a good one anyway. If she knew you had these feelings for "Bob" then she shouldn't have dated him. Friends don't do that to each other. I say, get a new love interest. Forget "Bob", you really don't need him. Hope I helped :)
♥Momo
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Okay, there sounds like there is a problem here. Not just the one you are asking about but something else...why do you still love him...just wondering. I mean he lied to you, left you for someone else, not to mension she was your friend...anyway. I think that you shouldn't go after him. Your heart is telling you that you still love him, but chances are that you really don't. Your heart is in shock, and I mean it litteraly. You don't know what to do, so your heart thinks that maybe if you get back together with him that everything will be okay, but your heart is leying! You need to take some time to think about this. He just wants to be friends;1 strike, He lies to you; strike 2, and then he goes for your friend; strike #3, I say he's out! He lost the game, gall. He doesn't deserve another chance on the plate, he isn't a very good player. Strike that, he is a player!Ha! Just give it a little time, and then move on. You will find another guy, but don't let him break your heart again, trust me! I hope that I helped, and remember that my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks.
P.S.
Your heart is just week from the shock, let it heal before you go and get it torn up again. Your heart won't make you wait forever, but give it some slack, it is the most important organ in your body! Ha!
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