Hi I am Baby Blue Sucker800!! I am good at advice.. anything else just ask me!
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me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months. i love him to death and hes going to be the ONE. we spend hours talking about our wedding plans and the future and i am extermly happy with him....but i cant stop thinking about suicide. im so happy with him but i remember all the mistakes i have made and it depresses me and makes me want to just fall off the earth and die. even mistakes from like 1st grade i still am embarassed. everytime i walk by a mirror i want to throw up. i cant stand my apperance. i always feel so fat, ive had many long lasting eating disorders. no matter how much anyone ever tells me im beautiful or wicked skinny. i just want to DIE. im only 15 so theres not much i can do. anyone have any suggestions? thanks for your help. i rate 5's. (link)
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Well some things like having a perfect boyfriend can help you remember all those bad times other times in your life. It seems that you are in love with a person right for you but... those other feelings can sometimes get in the way of a good and healthy relationship. Telling him about all your thoughts about suicide, he will care if he loves you. Also everyone makes mistakes and sometimes they seem to be so bad it's like how will i ever get over this. Thinking this way will get you no where. It hurts inside to have all that pain and half to put on a happy face... but talking to the people you love most can make all yhe more difference than everyone here trying to give you their advice. Talk to him... tell him how you feel... and he will be the one to make all the difference. Good luck and hope I helped!
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my mom always hits me. i have scratch and bite marks all over me. how do i stop my mom from punching me? she always hurts me for no reason. i really don't know what to do. i'm scared. she never hits my sister. only me. and my fat pig sister always does the wrong things and i don't and nothing ever happens to her. help. (link)
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Oh gosh. That must be a pain to have your MOTHER hit you and hurt you. What I think you should do FIRST is talk to your mom about how much you hate it when she hits you and does things that are not right. If she does not stop I think you should tell someone else like a friends mom or dad or maybe someone at your school. They can be the most helpful in a suation like this. Getting help along the way can make it a better journey. Maybe your mom needs help, or something is going wrong you need to ask her that not us. But once you let your emotions out, people seem to understand you a whole lot better!! I hope I helped you!!
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I Have a girl who is indeed preety.i have been finding it difficult to beleive that she loves me.She does everything possible to make me understand her ,but i just have this fear that she might be faking ,I have tried in so many ways to frustrate her ---just to find out if she would walk away,but no .she prefers to stay .well,i just want to find out if this is for real .so that i can start on time to reciprocate all she has been doing for me .i musnt fail to say that in the moment of despaire ,she was the only one who stood by me .well i am 25 ,male.Fresh grduate. thanks a lot . (link)
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Everything from liking someone to loving someone is really hard! Taking it by asking her may not always work. I truely think she not only likes you I think she loves you!! If she stays when you do things that piss her off and then she is the only one who sticks by your side?!?! I would say she is totally with you a 250% all the way! I am a girl and I should know what that feeling is so let her in a see what happens with your and hers love for each other!! Working out love is hard,... but when you try to be a open loving person to those who love you most... it can make the journey the whole lot easyer!! Hope I helped!!
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my friend asked the guy i like to go w/ me to this thing and yesterday she was like did u talk to her he said no and then she asked him if he was gonna go and he said i had to ask him myself my thing is tho im soooooooo shy and i kno i can ask but im scared! not necessarily of rejection just scared in general of whats gonna happen cuz im a really cautious person and you know how they say throw caution to the wind? well not that easy for me is it ok to be scared? im so stressed over this i dont know waht to do please help! (link)
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Ok well I know that from experence that asking a guy to go ANYWHERE with you is really HARD and not to mention SCARRY!! Yeah what you need to do is look your best ,and build the cofidence and think about what you are going to say to him before hand. Once you know what is going on SHOOT!! Ask him well I was wondering if you would do something with me?? If he says yes then be happy and jump up and down (not in front of him) lol... but if he says no thanxz then say ok, walk away and act like nothing really ever happened between the two of you. Being rejected takes a toll and makes you wanna cry but keep your kewl and someone will be YOUR prince charming, maybe not now but sometime soon!! Hope I helped!!
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