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do i love him?
Posted Friday May 30 2008, 9:58 pm
okay.. so there is this guy that i have known my whole life.. and my whole life i have had a crush on him. from puppy love in preschool to crushing hard in middle school, ive always liked him.. his parents and my parents grew up together and we have grown up together, but we hardly see eachother because he goes to a diff. school.. i have not stopped thinking about him for over 2 and 1/2 years now.. its just that i couldnt imagine living my life without him. hes amazing! theres a few other things though.. first of all- not only does he go to another school.. im gonna be a soph and hell be a freshmen. my birthday is in may and his is in sept or oct. so its not like hes waay younger.. and all of my friends say that its weird.. except my bestie...
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dissaproveing family and friends
Posted Friday May 30 2008, 9:48 pm
ok so i am with this girl we have been dating for a while now and things are absoloutly amazing i love her so much.... so whats the problem? well ok i am 15 years old ill be 16 on june 22 but my gf is.... 13 and in seventh grade i dont see whats so wrong with that but my dad hates it and no one approves not even my best friend... but i love her so much plese help someone idk what to do.....
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boyfriend and ex
Posted Friday May 30 2008, 9:42 pm
i seem to be having a hard time letting go of my ex.. he cheated on me with my own cousin... i dont see why i should still love him but i do. I have a boyfriend now but i still think about my ex and my ex still talks to me about everything but once and a while he IMs me and talks to me about sex and how it was so good and stuff.. and hes still dating my cousin.. people tell me to forget about him and that he used me but i really dont think he did.. i think if i slept with him now, it would just be for the sex.. i do like my boyfriend but i always compare him to my ex.. but my boyfriend really is an amazing guy and i feel like i should love him more then my ex but i dont.. i dont know what to do and top it off i had sex with my boyfriend abo...
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i like this guy
Posted Friday May 30 2008, 9:24 pm
female/ 15
i really like this guy at my school. i dont know him but i saw him once and i thought he was so hot. later on, i found out that a friend of mine knows him pretty well through her boyfriend. i talked to this friend and her boyfriend. they told me that this guy is really fun to talk to and interesting and intellectual and that mnay "pretty" girls approach him all the time but he is looking for something more. he is my age and both my friend and her bf said they dont think he has ever had a gf. i tend to get really obsessed about guys i like and i dont wanna get my heart broken. this guy is my dream guy though, both his looks and from all these great things i have heard and seen even from far away of his per...
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My BF Problems
Posted Friday May 30 2008, 7:33 pm
Okay, female/12, my ex-boyfriend is really pissed because i broke up with him on a wednsday, and was asked out 2 days after, an I said yes. And now hes really mad, and told my boufriend to F*** Off! And now my boyfriend told him not to talk to me or else! What should I do?
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BOYFRIEND--- TONIGHT.. plleaseee helppp.
Posted Friday May 30 2008, 6:18 pm
so today at my school vvas senior skip day.. and my boyfriend stayed home. im only a freshman so i vvent to school.. i called him after school and he told me he vvas planning on going camping tonight vvith his vvhole senior class. this vvorries me because i knovv hovv he gets vvhen he is drunk & there vvill be alot of drunk girls there.. & its about an hour avvay from vvhere vve live. im not so sure if i can trust him yet.. i dont vvant to tell him that he cant go but i also dont vvant him to go.. vvhatttt shoulld i do? anythinggg vvoullddd be helpful =]]
thank youuu.
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im really depressed
Posted Friday May 30 2008, 4:28 pm
14/f
ok so this guy ive liked for one year started dating someone else. it hurts sooo much and i keep drinking to forget about it.
i dont wanna see them in school together and my stomach hurts so badly, i cant eat and i just feel like shit.
its the second time this has happened to me.
and hes not even that great. he drinks and smokes and is mean to his best friend :(
i still feel attracted to him
how can i get over him?????
please help me.
tell me why hes not worth it or smth. i really need to get it in my head
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how can i do this??
Posted Friday May 30 2008, 4:06 pm
Okay so i am going to meet this boy during the summer and he is interested from what i hear. BUT we havent met, he has just seen a picture of me. And if I am interested as well, how do i make him more interested without being a slut? like how do i act? some people say make him work for it because guys like a chase, but what if that confuses him?? i dont know what to do. I have flirted and stuff, but i need new tips. The last guy i flirted with was from like january to march. But he was a senior and graduated and at graduation i gave him a hug. We flirted like everyday, but what if the game is different for this new boy?? i want to show him im interested (hypothetically) without being seeming annoying or clingy.
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How to help a friend find someone
Posted Friday May 30 2008, 3:18 am
Alright. I have this friend. Lets say, Ed.
Ed is a nice guy. Ed's the kind of guy whom every girl always calls "A nice guy" He's also the kind of guy who can't get a date to save his life.
No advice Ive given him has worked for him, no advice anyone else has given him has worked for him. No matter what happens, by the end of the night he's alone and no one accepts his date invitations.
So now he really likes this girl. This girl is really into another friend of mine, who isnt into her. But shes chasing him and Ed's chasing her.
Ed has no idea. This girl accepted an invite to a Karaoke bar, he thinks its a date, she thinks hes a really nice friend.
My ...
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My Co-worker
Posted Friday May 30 2008, 2:30 am
I'm 19, and I just started getting over my ex of nearly 2 years. I just started an internship at this business and there's this guy that is so incredibly cute and he's so nice to me. He makes me laugh and he's kind of the first guy since my ex that I have started to crush on. However, this is BAD. My workplace is very professional and we always have to keep on task. The problem is, when I start liking someone, I get really flirty (sometimes unintentional!) and I just can't stop smiling around this person and I get super nervous and weird and I can not make eye contact with them. I need to maintain a professional relationship with this guy (He's the same age). If he was ugly and mean, I probably wouldn't have this problem and I'd be fine tal...
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Does she want to leave me?
Posted Thursday May 29 2008, 10:59 pm
m/24
Lately, my girlfriend and I keep fighting. I get the distinct feeling that all her comments like I don't take anything seriously (which I only seem to because she takes everything seriously, and I thought that was something about our relationship balance, I'm mellow and she's rigid).
We had a fight about names for kids (which I think shouldn't have been a fight since we haven't done to make children a factor in our lives). She thinks I never compromise anything while she has to give everything up.
Near as I can tell, I've compromised on more stuff like her. I freaking skipped out on a family member's birthday to help her find her wallet. I'm still making up for that in the eyes of my parents.
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more than friends now
Posted Thursday May 29 2008, 10:56 pm
well me and my best friend recently became a couple on monday. and we really do like each other as more than best friends. but not a lot of people seem to believe so. people think that we're just really lonely and that we use each other to make us feel better. and it's not true, because i really do have feelings for her. and she tells me she has feelings for me. but she is started to believe everything. what can i do to let her know that i am serios about being her boyfriend and that i really do care about her more than just best friends? and what can i do to convince people that what me and her have is serious?
thanks
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msn messanager +hot guy = mess
Posted Thursday May 29 2008, 10:37 pm
Okay So I have the messanger off of msn, and me n my crush (let's call him "Joe") chat on there about every other day or so. But the thing is I don't know what to say. I LOVE talking to him, but where i have this crush & all I tense up.
What do guys like to talk about. What should i Say? ( he goes 2 a different school so i can't talk about that)
WHAT WOULD YOU DO>......... HELP!
plz/thanks
-a.m.l
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Is my ex trying to get me back?
Posted Thursday May 29 2008, 8:16 pm
My ex bf sent me a text telling me he "broke away" from this girl he liked even though they weren't officially dating- and he was all proud of it and sayin' how much he hated her... and honestly I don't really care what he does. I don't want anything to do with him anymore because he was a jerk to me. Do you think since he's moved on from this other poor girl, he's gonna move onto me? because he's talking to me a lot again, and I really don't want to deal with him again. What do I do?
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what am i going to do
Posted Thursday May 29 2008, 8:08 pm
so there's 2 guys, let's name the first guy "spongebob" and the other guy "patrick" from spongebob square pants. okay, so i met both of them from my older sister, because she knows their older siblings. and patrick is closer to me and stuff, and i just met both of them. and they BOTH started liking me. last night, patrick told me that he liked me. but before he did, he asked me some questions, and i told him that i'd rather have a guy not wait for me because i don't want someone to wait for me if i'm not going to go for them & just to get to know other people. but then patrick said "but what if they wanna wait for them?" and all that, and i told him that then it's their choice, but i'd rather not have him w...
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he wont leave me alone!
Posted Thursday May 29 2008, 7:40 pm
f/16
I have class with this boy, we'll call him bob. So bob is a year younger then me and asked me to prom two months before prom was scheduled and we talked and stuff, but we weren't acquaintences or anything, but I said no to him for prom, cause i didn't want to go with him and made some excuse. Well, at prom I saw him there while my date wanted to sit down and take a break, so Bob asked me to dance and i did for a couple of minutes and then broke free cause I didn't want to dance with him. Yesterday Bob asked me if I wanted to hang out and I said no because I wasn't going to be in that area. Then he asks me when I will be free to hang out (through a text) but I haven't responded yet, but he's not getting the message that I don't w...
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Getting over this .
Posted Thursday May 29 2008, 7:36 pm
Ok , in the past my boyfriend has done alot of hurtful things . That has made me lose my trust for him , all of it . & i feel like i NEED to be with him 24/7 to make sure there is not anything going on. but everyone knows we can be with someone all the time . I'm the type of girl that if i cant get in touch with him i flip out , i worry , it drives me insane & amillion things pop in my head & not good thoughts either. I really wanna get over this because i know you cant have a relationship with out trust & that it just wont work. is there like anything i can do while im by my self to like keep my mind off of it or to keep me calm . I want things that i can actually do & will work . Thanks
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signals
Posted Thursday May 29 2008, 4:36 pm
Lets start with I'm in love with this guy named "s" and well lately we've gotten closer usually when his best 2 friends that happen to be a girls are not around. I know he doesn't like any of them because he acts idiotic and silly with them. But well when their not around he asked me to sit beside him in class we hold hands pass notes talk about silly things but he tries to act tough. I thought he's trying to impress me. but when his 2 friends are around he tries to keep it on the down low like we'll pass by say hiiee and junk and just in klass he'll stare at me from a far. i'll relise smile back and look somewhere else. Heres the deal before he started to hold hands with me he told me had liked a girl named "AA" like 2 ...
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AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!
Posted Thursday May 29 2008, 6:25 am
Hi
well heres the story
There was this new guy Phillip and he started hanging out with my group and i was being nice and talking to him.Well its been 4 weeks and i really like him.And everybody in my group knows except him and today my friend kayne thought it would be funny to tell phillip that i liked him and asked him if he would go out with me. I walked away and kayne came over and told me that i was now going out wiht Phillip. I freaked out and asked my friend to go tell him that i didn't want to go out with him yet and i wanted to get to know him better. Since i've had time to think about it and i'm begining to regret not going out with him.
What should i do ask him out again or should i wai...
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Should I be fed up?
Posted Thursday May 29 2008, 4:39 am
I am so, so sick of everything relating to relationships. All that ever happens to me is: I like a guy, he's really cool, and then he gets a girlfriend. That's happened to me MULTIPLE times now. And it's either that, or the guy isn't as great as he seemed to be. It seems like everyone has SOMEBODY who completely amazes them, except for me. I've liked guys before, but none of them have truly amazed me (meaning, I have never been in love).
I'm not incredibly skinny, but I'm not "fat." I'm not drop-dead gorgeous, but I'm not ugly. I'm just your average sixteen year old girl, really, but unlike the stereotype portrays, I care about more than gossip and the way my hair looks.
I apologize for the length of this qu...
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