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Hi
well heres the story
There was this new guy Phillip and he started hanging out with my group and i was being nice and talking to him.Well its been 4 weeks and i really like him.And everybody in my group knows except him and today my friend kayne thought it would be funny to tell phillip that i liked him and asked him if he would go out with me. I walked away and kayne came over and told me that i was now going out wiht Phillip. I freaked out and asked my friend to go tell him that i didn't want to go out with him yet and i wanted to get to know him better. Since i've had time to think about it and i'm begining to regret not going out with him.
What should i do ask him out again or should i wait and actually get to know him better?
I'm so confused
thanks
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get to know him then see if you actually have chemistry
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How are you going to get to know him better if you don't go out with him and talk to him more?
Yes, you should ask him out again before he thinks you are playing games with him. Your friend shouldn't have put you on the spot like that by telling him you liked him, but I am sure your friend meant no harm in doing this. They just know you are shy, which I hope you come out of so that you can be happy in life and not passive. Tell him what's up, how you feel and that you are interested in getting to know him better and invite him out. Keep your business with him kind of personal since you are hanging in a group together so that a bunch of mess doesn't get started - usually when people within a group or clique start going out or have interest in one another, it gets kind of messy from too many people being involved all in your mix. just a word of caution.
Good Luck Dearheart!
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if you really like him, wait until yall are alone, or call him up and explain to him that you do like him, and that you want to go out with him, but you were just embarrassed at the time. You'll get to know him better along the way. Chances are he was hoping that, that was the reason for the rejection.
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