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more than friends now
well me and my best friend recently became a couple on monday. and we really do like each other as more than best friends. but not a lot of people seem to believe so. people think that we're just really lonely and that we use each other to make us feel better. and it's not true, because i really do have feelings for her. and she tells me she has feelings for me. but she is started to believe everything. what can i do to let her know that i am serios about being her boyfriend and that i really do care about her more than just best friends? and what can i do to convince people that what me and her have is serious?
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hey im jackie
if you really do like this girl then who cares what anyone else thinks. and you can just continue telling her how much you really do like her and that your not just lonley. just tell her that if you didnt like her as more than a friend then you would not be dating her.
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First of all your relationship is your relationship not everyone else's. Who gives a rat's tail about what people think or have to say. I am hoping that she develops this perception as well, because if either one of you allow people to stir in your relationship and you actually digest their negative thoughts and opinions, your relationship is destined to fail and thus will the friendship..
You have NOTHING to prove to people, the only person you have to prove anything to is yourself and your girlfriend! Making each other feel better isn't using the other.. it's being a relationship.. what are you supposed to do make each other feel stupid? LOL people have life and relationships backwards - I am referring to the ones who made the comment about the two of you being lonely and using each other.
The best relationships are those that were friends first.. You trust each other, you know each other, you have already bonded and you know what, be happy! KEEP those people out of your mix and business and tell them to get some business of their own, because they sound lonely, and jealous. They have too much time on their hands, if they have time to worry about why you and your girlfriend got together. Please ask her to read my response. People will never know how serious a relationship is unless they are the actual ones in it!
Good Luck and Congrads on your relationship with your best friend. I think that's great!!!
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