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Lets start with I'm in love with this guy named "s" and well lately we've gotten closer usually when his best 2 friends that happen to be a girls are not around. I know he doesn't like any of them because he acts idiotic and silly with them. But well when their not around he asked me to sit beside him in class we hold hands pass notes talk about silly things but he tries to act tough. I thought he's trying to impress me. but when his 2 friends are around he tries to keep it on the down low like we'll pass by say hiiee and junk and just in klass he'll stare at me from a far. i'll relise smile back and look somewhere else. Heres the deal before he started to hold hands with me he told me had liked a girl named "AA" like 2 months ago. i herd him and his friends talking about her and i was gonna colapse in shock becuz i thought we had something..she doesn't talk to him they realii dunt noe eachother much. but i'v fallen so deeply for him. We try to play hard to get alot and we stare at eachother constantly but i know he likes her.. he doesn't talk about her to me. He tries to hold my hand and he glares constantly at me that has mean something. right ? and it hurts me deeply that he would hug me and stuff while he likes a diffrent gurl. i don't know if he likes me i'm too afraid to ask but i know i want to be with him could you please help me? i need tips on how make him ask me out. & how to find out if he likes me !!!!. how do i ask him if he still likes "AA" ?.. what is he doing to me playing games?
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To start, it all sounds very complicated, and I don't envy you at all. Now, first thing's first, you CANNOT make him ask you out. Life doesn't work that way unless you are awesome at manipulation, which you don't sound like you are, yet.
Moving on, since you two are close, asking him about AA isn't out of the question. Bring her up in passing and judge his reaction, and then from there you could even ask if he likes her or not. You'll have to be prepared for if he does, though. That could be really painful to find out, but you'll just have to let him like her. There's also a way here to find out if he likes you, because if he likes her, you could interject something like "do you like her the way you like me, or is it different?" and then you have him explain how he likes HER and you have the answer as to how he likes you.
It seems to me that he thinks AA is out of his league, but that you might be, as well. He connects with you, which I can tell through his actions, and that tells me that he probably isn't playing games on purpose.
Be sneaky, underhanded and investigative and you'll easily find out what's going on. Ask around, have friends ask around, etc. You'd be amazed what you'll get back.
I hope this helped you, even a little.
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