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im really depressed
14/f
ok so this guy ive liked for one year started dating someone else. it hurts sooo much and i keep drinking to forget about it.
i dont wanna see them in school together and my stomach hurts so badly, i cant eat and i just feel like shit.
its the second time this has happened to me.
and hes not even that great. he drinks and smokes and is mean to his best friend :(
i still feel attracted to him
how can i get over him?????
please help me.
tell me why hes not worth it or smth. i really need to get it in my head
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dont worry. i have boy problems too. someone im pretty much in love with is in a relationship. i know how much it sucks. but youre only fourteen. its not like its going to last forever. like theyre getting married or something. you know- you say that he drinks and its horrible, then why are you drinking? i mean-just saying. thats one thing you def. need to stop because its not helping anything. its just adding more drama to the situation. another thing is- find someone else to be attracted to. im not saying forget about him and drop him for good, im just saying find another guy to flirt with that youre also attracted to (pref. one with higher standards!) i know its hard to understand and you think that this can never happen but once it does.. then youll be like "wow. i cant believe i even made such a big deal about him!" hope this helps!
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Well if you've liked him for over a year and hasn't asked you out, then he's not interested.
I went through the same thing, but all you have to do is just tell yourself that if he doesn't want you back, why should you want him?
Don't keep drinking, that's veryyyyy bad for you, but just focus on other things, play a game, go out with friends, get over his dumbass.
You seem like a very compassionate girl, and if he can't see that in you, then he doesn't deserve you at all.
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