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Sup, I'm Ashton.
Purple is my favorite color and I love the Little Mermaid.

Contrary to popular belief, I do act like the average 16-year-old girl sometimes. It is a known fact, however, that my mind is far ahead of my body - thus making me more mature than most adults.

Giving advice and helping people is something I love to do and I'm told I'm very good at it. I will do my best to help everyone I can to the best of my abilities but remember, I'm only sixteen.

Never be afraid to ask me anything. I won't judge anyone and I will always be here for you when you need me.

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I'm 17 years old, and i haven't gotten my period yet this month. I should of gotten it a few days ago, because i got it november 9th, december 10th, and january 8th. it is pretty regular now. today is february 12th and i still have not gotten it, but i had cramps this past week and i've been emotional. i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend in january but i've never had sex without a condom. i took a pregnancy test yesterday and it was negative. could the fact that i haven't gotten my period yet be because of stress? i also heard that when you have sex it changes your cycle. could that also be why i haven't gotten it?

The signs of pregnancy should start to show around 2 weeks after the supposed conception so watch for that if your period still hasn't started. But sometimes periods are late or go haywire. Not to be weird, but mine sure is. Mine's all over the place, never on time so I can't even track. I tried for the first time in like 4 years about a month ago and it was late and I was beginning to think I was like the Virgin Mary! If it doesn't come, read up on the signs, watch for nauseousness early in the morning especially. If you had sex with a condom you should be fine. Just keep real close watch, keep taking pregnancy tests if you have to and don't have sex until you're sure your periods is just late.

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There is a guy in my homeroom and I think he likes me but I'm not sure. Stuff he does: stares at me, always ask me if I want to hear one of his jokes, he wants me to touch him ( his head), and he is always trying to get close to me! I don't know what this means but I do have a crush on him.

He probably does by the way it sounds! That sounds like the kind of stuff guys do when they like a girl. But you don't want to do anything extreme in case he doesn't. Just kind of get a little flirty with him. Do a little cute laugh at his jokes, smile often, act sexy and interested, that kind of stuff - they eat it up. And since he stares at you a lot, try looking back at him when you notice him doing it, and if your eyes happen to meet, smile. Also, get a little closer to him - that will help a LOT. You'll find out soon enough!

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Okay so i've got the sims life stories game, and I have it installed on my computer at home. But today when I tried to install it on my mamaws computer it won't let me. When I pop the cd in NOTHING pops up! IDK what to do. My friend says it's cause it's only ment to be installed on 1 computer. BUT that you can go online and it'll help you install it. IF THAT IS TRUE what's the website?

I tried the same thing.

The sims 2 life stories has to be installed on a recently made computer, like a dell flat screen or a modern one.
It won't let you because your "mamaws" computer doesnt have the nesicerry equiptment made for the game to run on.

& There is not website. The only way to install a game is with the game CD itself.
And it can be installed on 1326451243 computers.
Your freind is a liar, hun.

Hope I helped(:

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Okay so I was on youtube, and theres this video called 'THE SCENE KIDS KEEP STARING AT ME' or something like that.
Its reallly neat how the sims are dressed. And one gave a peace sign??
How do you get them to do that? The comments say that its Sims two, but what edition? Or are there cheats or something? I dont know. please help!!
Heres the link to watch the video. Its soopercool.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BV-kO1b1Hik

It's an Edition.

Bon Voyage.

All you have to do it get that edition, install it, blah blah, and when you play it, click on your active sim and click pose and peace sign will on there (:


Have fun :DDD

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14/f
ok so this guy ive liked for one year started dating someone else. it hurts sooo much and i keep drinking to forget about it.
i dont wanna see them in school together and my stomach hurts so badly, i cant eat and i just feel like shit.
its the second time this has happened to me.
and hes not even that great. he drinks and smokes and is mean to his best friend :(
i still feel attracted to him

how can i get over him?????
please help me.
tell me why hes not worth it or smth. i really need to get it in my head

Well if you've liked him for over a year and hasn't asked you out, then he's not interested.

I went through the same thing, but all you have to do is just tell yourself that if he doesn't want you back, why should you want him?

Don't keep drinking, that's veryyyyy bad for you, but just focus on other things, play a game, go out with friends, get over his dumbass.

You seem like a very compassionate girl, and if he can't see that in you, then he doesn't deserve you at all.
(:

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This Is kInd Of Long

but when a women who has been married to a guy for 18 yrs and then the man cheats on her does she have the right to ho physco it scares me she broke the window tried burning the house and drove the car to try to kill someone. i dont know what to do aanymore please help this is the daughter by the way

You poor child.

Yes, she has a right to be MAD, but to go physco is just...crazy.

If she broke the window, tried burning down the house or running over someone, then your mother isn't quite insane.

But she loves your father and knowing the man she loved for 18 years got tired of her and cheated has completely disrupted her chemical balances in her brain.

All that you can do is call the police whenever she goes loco again. She could possibly harm you or your father.
It's the best thing at this point.

Good luck.

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I have a bit of a problem and I am not sure how to deal with it. I am 21 and recently discovered my mother is smoking weed. I found a joint and today when I walked in the house it smelt like weed. She is a grown woman and can make decisions, but I am worried that it will turn into worse.
My father was a drinker and druggy and thats how he ultimately died. So I am worried that she will end up the same way to early.
So please tell me if I should just butt out or what I can do about it.

My mother had the same problem and it ultimately ruined her life. It brought her mental illness and health problems.
Even though I'm only 13, I know what you may be going through.

DO NOT butt out. That is the worse possible thing you can do at this point. If you know your mother is smoking weed do whatever you can do in your power to stop her before it ruins her life- or kills her.

Yes, she may be a grown woman, but even as that, she knows eventually it'll kill her and leave behind you and the rest of her family.

You love your mother enough to even consider talking to her about it, but you need to take the next step and bring it up with her.
Tell her that you're there for her, and you don't want to lose her like you lost your father.

Good luck- and I hope she listens.

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15/m i don't know if i'm gay or not, but i'm sort of leaning towards being gay... i don't know what to do with myself.. i don't know if i should find someone and get things straight, or if i should wait for someone to show up... what should i do?

Oh dear.

Well, in order to be gay, you've got to be attracted to guys.
If you're not, then there's no hope in being gay.
But, if you are, and you truly have thought and considered being gay and WANT to be, then do it.
There's no shame in it.
Or be bi, and if one doesn't work, go the other way.
Simple as that, sweetie.
Good luck(:

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13/f
Mii friend C, shes hurt me a lot of times, like telling me how im a B**** when i just told her she can be a little messed up sometimes. another time, she told me she didnt want me to be friends with her friends that she knew first. also, shes said stuff to my little brother about how shes just taking advantage of me because im nice like that and im smart(i dont mean to brag but she said that). im really hurt and then she just gets mad at me, i dont think i hurt her because i would never try to hurt a friend. sometimes shes just like that and shes lied to me so much but i dont get why im so nice about anything and i always forgive her. but this time i cant forgive her because i cant take it anymore. please some advice on what i should do about this, i would be grateful and really appreciative of any advice. thank you so much!

Wow.
I've had the same problem.

First; Ask yourself this: why would you even continue to be friends with someone who is hurting you, calling you a bitch, taking advantage of you and telling you who you can and can't be friends with?

I say just dump her.
Sure, she may be your friend and everything, but look at how she's treating you. It's horrible!

You don't need that; you deserve so much better if you're still nice to her when she's treating you like a Raggedy Ann doll.

Just tell her straight up:
"Listen, (whateverhernameis), we've been friends for a while and lately you're taking advantage of me and I don't like it; or the way you treat me. It isn't right, and I deserve better, So I guess I'm not your friend anymore."

Something along those lines.

Good luck(:

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