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i think i'm gay...
15/m i don't know if i'm gay or not, but i'm sort of leaning towards being gay... i don't know what to do with myself.. i don't know if i should find someone and get things straight, or if i should wait for someone to show up... what should i do?
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I guess wait for someone to show up...
Don't be ashamed of it, either. Gay people are sexy.
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Go to school.
Hang out with your friends.
Check out whomever seems hottest to you.
If you find yourself staring at everyone, ask anyone out.
If you find yourself staring mostly at guys, ask a guy out.
If you find yourself staring mostly at girls, well I think you get the picture.
My question to you is, why are you in such a hurry to "define" yourself? We certainly don't know if you're gay.
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Oh dear.
Well, in order to be gay, you've got to be attracted to guys.
If you're not, then there's no hope in being gay.
But, if you are, and you truly have thought and considered being gay and WANT to be, then do it.
There's no shame in it.
Or be bi, and if one doesn't work, go the other way.
Simple as that, sweetie.
Good luck(:
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Chase after whom ever you like. You might even be bi. Just trust your heart!It's okay if your gay or bi. Don't worry over it, you'll find the right man or woman.
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ehmm,
you might be but i dont know?
im fourteen/female
and i look at other girls and stuff and think theyre cute and pretty and stuff,
and ive had boyfriends but ive never really kissed a guy
but sometimes i just wanna try, you know? like when im with my friends just to see what its like. i dont know.
but i think when im looking at other girls my age and stuff, i dont like, "like" them. i think im just a bit jealous. maybe i like the way they look because they just look so confident, like they know what theyre doing. i dont know..
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imagine yourself when you're older. can you see yourself with a pretty wife? or with a handsome partner? think about which one truly sounds more appealing.
sometimes i think maybe i could be gay (im female) because i look at celebrities or women on the street and notice things about them and yeah etc. but then i try imagining myself with a partner instead of a husband and i cant. i realize i wouldnt like it and that im way more attracted to the opposite sex.
so i guess you just have to really think hard about it. dont just go by "well that guy is really hot" go by who you would best see yourself with.
maybe even experiment. if you kiss a few girls it might tell you what way you're swaying to.
from like 13-15 is when almost everyone questions their sexuality. its not abnormal to be a little attracted to the same sex.
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