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I dont feel like her friend anymore! :(
13/f
Mii friend C, shes hurt me a lot of times, like telling me how im a B**** when i just told her she can be a little messed up sometimes. another time, she told me she didnt want me to be friends with her friends that she knew first. also, shes said stuff to my little brother about how shes just taking advantage of me because im nice like that and im smart(i dont mean to brag but she said that). im really hurt and then she just gets mad at me, i dont think i hurt her because i would never try to hurt a friend. sometimes shes just like that and shes lied to me so much but i dont get why im so nice about anything and i always forgive her. but this time i cant forgive her because i cant take it anymore. please some advice on what i should do about this, i would be grateful and really appreciative of any advice. thank you so much!
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Wow.
I've had the same problem.
First; Ask yourself this: why would you even continue to be friends with someone who is hurting you, calling you a bitch, taking advantage of you and telling you who you can and can't be friends with?
I say just dump her.
Sure, she may be your friend and everything, but look at how she's treating you. It's horrible!
You don't need that; you deserve so much better if you're still nice to her when she's treating you like a Raggedy Ann doll.
Just tell her straight up:
"Listen, (whateverhernameis), we've been friends for a while and lately you're taking advantage of me and I don't like it; or the way you treat me. It isn't right, and I deserve better, So I guess I'm not your friend anymore."
Something along those lines.
Good luck(:
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Hi,
First off I would like to tell you that a true friend would never abuse a friendship like that. If she is truly your friend and wants to make your friendship work then she will work with you to overcome the difficulties in your friendship. Personally, I believe you are making the right decision in leaving her alone and staying away from that friendship. Not all friendships are healthy ones. Besdides if she really wants to be your friend she'll prove it to you and make an effort to make things right with you.
Best Of Luck
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honestly kick her to the curb. you deserve a better friend. and you are still nice to her b/c you are a good person and look for the best in people. seriously just don't fret over her anymore, fool you once shame on her, fool you twice, shame on you.
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