Member Since: May 30, 2008
Answers: 13
Last Update: June 1, 2008
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okayy, so i like this kid lets say joe. and we are going to this school formal dance as "just friends" as he put it. but i like him. and we just got back from this school 4-day trip and we hung out sometimes and when i was in the hotel rooming with my friends he called every night practically and we would talk and stuff but then my phone died and he said aww okay ill call you on your roomates phones but they were on it so i couldnt and i said id call back but when i did he was sleeping.
(the guys were 2 floors below the girls.) then at this dinner thing one night he was sitting at another table until we were doing this puzzle thing, he came and sat next to me and we did the puzzle for like an hour. and when we were on the phone that night he had one of his roomates talk to me for a minute and his friend asked questions like "do i know you, are you short,are you ugly?" i heard joe answering the ugly question saying NO! and another time he told my friend i was pretty. but he likes someone else. so can i do anything to make him like me? please help asapp (: id like a guys opinion too. ill give feedback tooo! (link)
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awww! thats so cute! okay. so are you sure he likes someone else? it sounds like hes starting to get feelings for you.. just do the usual. flirt. bt act like it doesnt really matter to you and see how it affects him. btw- you said his name was joe and yaall were "just friends"? thats kind of ironic.. (joe jonas.. jonas brothers have a song called "just friends".. look up the lyrics if you ahvent heard it.. its great!) hope this helps!
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ok so this is a random question but here goes. I had jaw surgery about 2 weeks ago and i lost some weight because im not able to chew solid foods....The losing weight thing is good on my stomach area. I wasnt fat or anything i just had a bit of a gut so i lost the gut which is good. But i also lost weight in my thighs and in my butt. My butt wasnt big or anything but i had like the sizza i wanted and it got smaller since i losst weight but i want it to go back to how it looked. How do i make it back to how it looked before the surgery but without putting it back onto my stomach too???
Thanks In advance! (link)
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this excercise will give you muscle. not fat so dont worry about adding any weight.. okay, i know this sounds weird but you get on your hand and knees and lift up your leg to the side. kind of like a dog. lol. or you could do squats into a chair. hope this helps!
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my birthday is coming up in june.
i wanna go out to eat. i live in saint louis, any suggestions on where it would be good to go out to eat and get all dressed up? (link)
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well.. im not gonna lie. im def. not near the saint louis area.. more like atlanta. but for one of my friends birthdays we rode in a limo downtown, stayed in a hotel, and went to the sundial, a rotating restaurant, and it was alot of fun! i dont konw your price range but there is a rotating restaurant downtown called top of the riverfront. it looks pretty delicious and def. fine dining. happy early birthday! hope this helps!
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Is it a good idea to take the LSAT (actual) once as a practice, to get a feel for the test site/conditions, or is it better to just give it your all and only take it once? (link)
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you might want to get a book first to study by. if youre not an upcoming senior then take it as a practice to see how you do. just dont take it to many times or youll get tired of it. just take it until you are happy with your score. good luck! hope this helps!
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13/f
Ok I like this guy. He isn't popular at all. I'm not going to see him for like two months or so. So I messaged him and he did reply and we talked a little well just for him to find out who I was. So he knows and he isn't talking to me but I mean it isn't a big deal but I really like him and I'm not gonna keep sending him messages because I know that will creep him out. He is the only thing on my mind and I do keep myself busy. I don't really know what my question is but please help. I'm just a little down that he hasn't said anything and he is extremely nice so I wouldn't say he would do anything mean to me. Please help me out. Thanks. (link)
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stop sending him messages. if hes interested hell start messaging you. or if its been a while (like a few weeks, not a few days.. i know it seems forever when you like someone but trust me on this!) and if youre talking about on myspace or facebook or something then send him a comment being like "hey. hope you have a great summer." and see if he says anything else.. hope this helps!
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female/ 15
i really like this guy at my school. i dont know him but i saw him once and i thought he was so hot. later on, i found out that a friend of mine knows him pretty well through her boyfriend. i talked to this friend and her boyfriend. they told me that this guy is really fun to talk to and interesting and intellectual and that mnay "pretty" girls approach him all the time but he is looking for something more. he is my age and both my friend and her bf said they dont think he has ever had a gf. i tend to get really obsessed about guys i like and i dont wanna get my heart broken. this guy is my dream guy though, both his looks and from all these great things i have heard and seen even from far away of his personality. he plays guitar and my friend offered me to go to his concert next week. i get picked up in the same place as him after school and i have wanted to start up a conversation but either i chicken out or he isnt there. for some reason, i keep seeing him a lot lately and although a lot of the time i do try to go to places at school where i know i can see him it is often a coincidence. my friends tell me that when i see him i stare and almost drool. i wanna meet this guy so badly but im afraid that if i do it at the concert it will look like another one of those awkward stalker situations that i feel like im in with him sometimes. help please! (link)
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it seems like he either isnt ready for a relationship or he is serious about one.. if you stare, then you stare, just make sure that its not too long or his doesnt notice! lol. i wouldnt go to the concert if youre only going for him. i think its better for you to get to know him yourself then find out everything about him before you even talk to him! it ruins the moment!! i would have your friend and her boyfriend introduce yaall and find out something yo have in common and go from there. if its meant to be, then its meant to be.. hope this helps!
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Iam 19 years old and my mom won't let me get a job becouse i have a learning disablity i know that's the reason becouse she let my sisters get jobs why won't she let me? (link)
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your mom knows what is best for you. she should know when the time is right. besides- if you have other sources of cash, dont worry about money! your time to work will come! for now-relax! hope this helps!
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14/f
im 5"6 and aobut 115 lbs.
before i used to wear pants too tight for me, and now i have like an indent on my hips, so now whenever i where any pants i have huge love handles. i want a smooth curve, not an indented one!
has this happened to anyone before? and do they know how to get rid of it! PLEASE!
and thank you! (link)
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yeah.. alot of people have them. i really wouldnt worry about it. just dont wear clothes that are tight on your hips.. wear them more lose to wear they lay on your skin. even if your wearing jeans and you have to wear a cute belt.
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You see my best friend is dating this guy that used to flirt and play around with me a lot last year. I mean he really hurt me but he was stupid and immature, he's a better guy now, or at least i like to think so. He does seem like it. Anyway, my friend asked me at least five times if it was ok with me for her to go out with him and i said sure. And i meant it my feelings are pretty much gone for him. But you see she keeps saying that any day now he's gonna leave her for me. She came up to me a few weeks ago asking me if i still have feelings for him and i said i didn't. I said he just toyed with me last year cause he was immature and then she said all dramatically 'no, he said he loved you.'. and she walked off and i chased her down and took her by the shoulders and explained to her how much he loved her and NOT me. She seemed ok but she's not. Take in mind i have a very flirty personality but when i talk to her boyfriend i hold back drastically to avoid this exact accusation, i also rarely talk to him. The other day i found a paper in her books that had this scratchy violent handwriting calling me a whore a slut, saying her boyfriend will hurt her.. She put my name plus her boyfriends and then scratched out her boyfriends. I know she's going a little insane with paranoia and i told her i just don't know what to do. She found me with the note and tried to sell 'its not what it looks like' to me. I told her i didn't want her to feel like this and i would ignore him if she wanted but i know that even doing that wouldn't help since i barely talk to him as it is. I'm not mad at her just hurt and confused, i seriously don't know what to do. Please help (link)
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you shouldnt be hrt by your friend. she is the one who is hurt. not by you. by her b.f. do you know if she has any trust issues? you might want to check into that. people who have had bad experiences with trust in relationships in the past ( like her parents divorce or a bad experience with another guy )may not let her be as open. she just doesnt want to get hrt again and thinks two people she cares about will abandon her. you need to let her know that you are there for her-no matter what. show her that you care in a special way. and if she doesnt understand after that.. it may take you telling her b.f in front of her that you dont have feelings for him, you used to but he hrt you, and that he should be happy with your friend because she is really special to you..
hope this helps!
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i want a coach purse but not the real one.
does anyone know a store i can get it at?
& how much are they? (link)
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i dont know where you live, but what i would do is go to atlanta, find people selling them and buy one. they look real but theyre not and they only cost like 3o-5o bucks! just go to your nearest city and look for one. or look on ebay and you can get a real one for cheap. hope this helps!
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14/f
ok so this guy ive liked for one year started dating someone else. it hurts sooo much and i keep drinking to forget about it.
i dont wanna see them in school together and my stomach hurts so badly, i cant eat and i just feel like shit.
its the second time this has happened to me.
and hes not even that great. he drinks and smokes and is mean to his best friend :(
i still feel attracted to him
how can i get over him?????
please help me.
tell me why hes not worth it or smth. i really need to get it in my head
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dont worry. i have boy problems too. someone im pretty much in love with is in a relationship. i know how much it sucks. but youre only fourteen. its not like its going to last forever. like theyre getting married or something. you know- you say that he drinks and its horrible, then why are you drinking? i mean-just saying. thats one thing you def. need to stop because its not helping anything. its just adding more drama to the situation. another thing is- find someone else to be attracted to. im not saying forget about him and drop him for good, im just saying find another guy to flirt with that youre also attracted to (pref. one with higher standards!) i know its hard to understand and you think that this can never happen but once it does.. then youll be like "wow. i cant believe i even made such a big deal about him!" hope this helps!
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Okay, female/12, my ex-boyfriend is really pissed because i broke up with him on a wednsday, and was asked out 2 days after, an I said yes. And now hes really mad, and told my boufriend to F*** Off! And now my boyfriend told him not to talk to me or else! What should I do? (link)
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okay.. please dont get offended. but yaall are in middle school!! they shouldnt be this crazy.. you know- one of my biggest pet peeves is when youre in m.s and you like a boy and they like you and youll be talking on the phone and they say i love you like all the time! i mean please! you cant be madly in love at that age!! all i can say is they need to get over it! if your old boyfriend is saying that then hes jealous!! and your new one should just ignore him. but no offense-again-that was pretty unthoughtful of you to do that to your ex. but like i said.. its just middle school.. hope this helps!
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Ok my sunburn is Yellowww..
Its funny but it hurtss..
why is it turning yellowww?
Is it because of the Solarcine sprayy?
UMM Ohh and it has bumps on itt..
Umm help? (link)
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thats not sunburn. its sun poisoning.. the bumps are like a heat rash or where they have made blisters.. all you can do is but lots of aloe and cold washcloths on it and itll help. oh! dont wear tight clothing either because it might stick. and dont scrub it off. my friend and i both had it on our faces once. she-not thinking-thought it might be better to scrub it off. all it did was cause pain and look like M.J!! good news- itll start feeling better soon if you take care of it.. bad news- youll peel in that spot every summer from now on. all you can do is make sure you wear sunblock and put on after-sun lotion (the best kind is the kind with aloe in it). hope this helps!
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