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This guy...
13/f
Ok I like this guy. He isn't popular at all. I'm not going to see him for like two months or so. So I messaged him and he did reply and we talked a little well just for him to find out who I was. So he knows and he isn't talking to me but I mean it isn't a big deal but I really like him and I'm not gonna keep sending him messages because I know that will creep him out. He is the only thing on my mind and I do keep myself busy. I don't really know what my question is but please help. I'm just a little down that he hasn't said anything and he is extremely nice so I wouldn't say he would do anything mean to me. Please help me out. Thanks.
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stop sending him messages. if hes interested hell start messaging you. or if its been a while (like a few weeks, not a few days.. i know it seems forever when you like someone but trust me on this!) and if youre talking about on myspace or facebook or something then send him a comment being like "hey. hope you have a great summer." and see if he says anything else.. hope this helps!
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Well your concern is really divided in to three areas. First, you want to know if it's okay or if you should be liking him. You're concerned about him not being popular as well as perception of him from others.
You really like him and that's all that matters and this is all natural. This could possibly be a great catch and relationship for you. It looks promising. The whole not seeing him for 2 months works against developing a romance though. Is there any way you can see him?
I mean if he's in the same town as you and you know where you both live why not see him? You can send him a message asking if he would like to join you at a party, bowling, movie with friends. If he's interested then you know for sure he's in to you.
Secondly, you are concerned about making an ass out of yourself if you send him too many messages and scaring him off. That's a good concern. For now, send him ONE last message about maybe meeting up and see what he does. Then leave him alone until he sends you a message. You need to show him you have a life and aren't always on the computer.
Third, he wouldn't have any excuse to be mean to you unless you did something to him to warrant him being annoyed. The reason he hasn't replied lately has to do with the fact he's probably busy too.
Send that last message I told you to do above and then forget about him until he reaches you. This way you come across properly. As hard as it is to forget him until he gets back to you it's for the best and to make you look good. Find other things to occupy your time. I'm sure he'll get back you as it looks like he enjoys chatting.
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