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what am i going to do
so there's 2 guys, let's name the first guy "spongebob" and the other guy "patrick" from spongebob square pants. okay, so i met both of them from my older sister, because she knows their older siblings. and patrick is closer to me and stuff, and i just met both of them. and they BOTH started liking me. last night, patrick told me that he liked me. but before he did, he asked me some questions, and i told him that i'd rather have a guy not wait for me because i don't want someone to wait for me if i'm not going to go for them & just to get to know other people. but then patrick said "but what if they wanna wait for them?" and all that, and i told him that then it's their choice, but i'd rather not have him wait for me. and stuff like that, because i decided to be with spongebob. but i was still single, and still am. and patrick told me that his older sister (which is my sister's best friend) knows that he likes me, and she said it was cool and that she likes me and stuff like that. and then today, spongebob KISSED me, and yes i did let him. so now i don't know what to do... i like spongebob, but then yet.. i don't wanna hurt patrick or make it awkward and stuff like that between me and his older sister.
also, because before all of this happened, patrick had this ex girlfriend that kept coming back to him. and he told me that he only liked her a little bit still, but he liked me and stuff like that, and he told his ex girlfriend to leave him alone, and to stop contacting him because he now likes me. and they've been together for 2 years! >.<" what am i going to do?
.. yes i'm still single & i chose spongebob, i just don't know how to deal with patrick and his sister.
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Well you should tell this "Patrick" how you feel. Tell him that he really means a lot to you and that you don't want to hurt him, but you prefer "Spongebob." Trust me, you're doing him a favor early now. Because if you wait, he'll develope more feelings and he'll get more crush. Just tell him how you feel and that you'd still want to be friend with him. But you don't want things to be awkward with you guys.
Hoped I Helped & Good Luck!
-LiTTLEGiRLBLUE<3
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I understnad your pain. But the best thing to do is tell tell Patrick flat out that he's a really nice guy but that your just into SpongeBob more. And that your really sorry, then talk to his sister and let her know that you didnt want to hurt Patrick, but you also didnt want to lead him on, and she will most likely understand.
Hope I helped.
-jessicamarie.
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