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Arranged...


Posted Friday July 11 2008, 2:36 am

I have liked my good guy friend romantically for a good 2 years now, but the problem is, his parents are super strict and have actually arranged a marriage for him. I think he might like me back, but is there really any point in pursuing him? I don't want to get my heart broken...

What should we do?

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My bestfriend thinks shes dating a guy.


Posted Thursday July 10 2008, 11:31 pm

Okay so my bestfriend just kissed one
of my really close i liked guy friends,
and she was telling me what happened.
Well i was also talking to the guy she kissed
on myspace and told him that she said that
there dating and he was like well where not
and then i was like well you need to tell you
that you guys arent.Then i asked why not and
he said because he likes me and i also liked him
for a very long time but his bestfriend also
likes me who i used to like to and he thought
i liked him thats why he never flirted with me
before,but he said he wanted to secretly date
sense we will get so many people mad,but i dont want to secretly date anyone but i...

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bi


Posted Thursday July 10 2008, 10:58 pm

Ok, I think i might be bi. i am 14/f and i know i like guys, but i think i kind of have a crush on my best freind. I have had some dreams about making out with girls, and stuff, and i kind of like it. But i havent ever kissed a girl (but i wanna try it) But i know most of you will say because of my age im just curious, well if thats the truth, then the curiousness is getting worse! And also im used to seeing gay/lesbian couples, because my aunts are lesbians. So im around that alot, and that might be affecting the way i think, I am a big supporter of gay rightts becuase of them, and well im just not sure if i am bi or not. So, im just confused, and at the moment im also confused because im in the process of breaking up with my boyfriend, be...

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help


Posted Thursday July 10 2008, 10:14 pm

plz help me my boy friend dumped me for family problems and now he won't atlk to me i keep teling him that i love him but he wow listen plz help love keely xxxxx

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pregnacy


Posted Thursday July 10 2008, 10:02 pm

im only 16 and iam pregnat i dont know what to do i feel like im dieing from my inside
the father of the baby want me to have an abort but i want ot have my baby and i dont know what to do is so much pressure and idont think is right to kill a little innocent baby i want to have the baby but this boy dont want to have a baby.. hes 17 and i love him but i cant do an abort.
:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:((: help me please ...

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First time


Posted Thursday July 10 2008, 10:01 pm

im almost 16 my bf is 16 and we went to have sex for both our first time and when he was about to put his penis in it went soft we tried later on the same thing happened i gave him a handjob but he couldnt get another erection hes really embarrassed what can we do?

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is he using me?


Posted Thursday July 10 2008, 9:52 pm

ok, so where should i start? i kinda met this guy through one of my friends. we had texted a lot and he calls me every night (this has been going on for about two weeks). we have been on a few dates and everytime he presses me to go farther and farther.
the guy is 4 years older than me. i'm in highschool and he's starting college. he lives about 30 mins away and its kinda difficult to see each other. also, he kinda has a gf, but tells me that he never gets to see her...
sometimes he calls me his private stripper. so far i haven't done anything with him, but he keeps on pressuring me to do something with him. i'm a virgin and want to save myself, but its so hard because he always sweet talks me and i'm kinda a sucker for that! lol
is he using me???

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Am i a slut @ age 14 aka "my seven deadly sins"


Posted Thursday July 10 2008, 9:15 pm

Okay I'm 14 years old and this summer has been like the crazziest summer. Okay these are the things I did just in 2 weeks

1.Gave a blow job in a public restroom
2.Had sex in a public restroom
3.Flashed a lot a guys at a public pool
4.Sent nude Photo's to atleast 7 different guys
5.Had a 3some (2 other guys)
6.madeout with a way older guy
7.Did a lot of ohter "things" in public places

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relationship is in danger


Posted Thursday July 10 2008, 7:04 pm

I am a black female 30 years old. Im in a interacial relationship black/indian me and my boyfriend have been very much in love untill recently when we made a off color joke that was not intened to offend me but it did. He felt like I shouldnt have reacted the way I did to his joke and if I understood him I would have known that he was just joking. Lately I have been talking about marriage and he feels we dont understand eachother after our misunderstanding. I really want to marry this guy but Iam afraid of wasting my time. We are good friends,never had any major problems. He cant even think of marrying me because he feels like something isnt right about our relationship but cant pin point what it is. I believe he loves me but for some reas...

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What Should I Do ?


Posted Thursday July 10 2008, 3:22 pm

15/f.

Ok, so i've been goin out with this guy for about 10 or 11 months, he's my best friend as well as my boyfriend, we've known each other since we were 8 years old. so its a really strong bond we have. But just recently things have like started to heat up abit, he told me he wants to go further with me, and that he loves me so much. He said he knows we could go further and I want to. But I'm not to sure anymore as he's been doing really minxy gestures and it feels good, i won't deny that but I'm just feeling this doubt.
Should I Go For It ?
Or Not ?

Help ?
Signed, Lou.

X

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first kisser


Posted Thursday July 10 2008, 3:06 pm

im CC ( bi female) and me and my girlfriend want to kiss but we are debating who should start/ initiate the kiss and we are going back and forth saying "you do it" and "no you do it" so who should go first....

Girlfriend...
or CC....

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Caught up


Posted Thursday July 10 2008, 12:06 pm

So there's this guy that I really like but he has a girlfriend. He acts really nice to me but I doubt he likes me. He's quite popular while I'm okay. His best friend and my close friend (both the same person) said that I would have a good chance with him but not over summer. Thing is, I don't live where he lives andni kind of want him now. He has a girlfriend, and they're really in love and even if he did break up with her he would need time befre moving on and thats also time up for me. I really want him to like me, what should I do? I know I should be myself, but I'm so so DESPERATE ! What do I do? I know this may sound weird but I really want a boyfriend !

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My boyfriend is ignoring me!


Posted Thursday July 10 2008, 9:45 am

Hey! Well, I have a bf and we've been together for 9 months. He is 18 and I'm turning 17 next month. He has also been ignoring me. At first everything was great it still is until he starts to ignore me. I just don't get it. I've asked him why does he do this to me, and his reason was if he feels like what I'm sayin is unimportant then he won't listen. I feel like this is wrong, because whether he says something dumb or what not I always listen. I never ignore him. I've even warned him if he doesn't change then we may not be together in the end. I've even told him that what he is doing is hurting me, because I've cried on the phone with him about it. I don't understand. We really do love each other, I mean we've made plans for the future and...

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Guys...


Posted Thursday July 10 2008, 7:37 am

What are the warning signs of guys who just want to get with you to get you into bed?

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upstairs girl


Posted Thursday July 10 2008, 5:35 am

my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 3 years. we have a baby together and live together. we broke up for a period of 2 months and just 3 weeks ago, he moved back in, and we are going through couples counseling to try and work things out. everytime i even look in the direction of another man, i get world war 3 in my ear. every little movement i make is questioned...he even goes as far as looking at my cell phone constantly. clearly, he does not trust me, and to be honest, i dont trust him that much either, which is why we are going through counseling to work out our issues and built ourselves up. however, there is a girl that lives upstairs from us (we live in an apt. building) and she lives with her boyfriend and their one year ...

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Abuse?


Posted Thursday July 10 2008, 5:25 am

Hi. I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 21. We have been together for a year and 4 months now. When we first got together, I remember him telling me about how his neighbor would beat his wife all the time, and he said this with admiration in his voice. I asked him if he thought it was okay to hit a woman, and he said yeah.
He does have anger problems, and the least little thing would set him off.

He used to tell me not to come to his house unless his cousin was with me, and one time I did go without his cousin and he huffed and puffed and balled up his fists, and turned sharply and walked away...later on he told me that he was going to knock me across the yard...he would always tell me how badly he wished he could put his han...

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he didn't call AGAIN!


Posted Thursday July 10 2008, 3:52 am

17, F
I used to talk to this guy ryan last summer, but I forgot why we stopped. Like I always do when I stop talking to a guy/boyfriend. Hahaha.

So 2days ago we finally got reunited in summer school. Ryan is very popular with the ladies because of his wonderful, excellent, omgoodness, wow, physical experience. So to make a long story short, we ended up kissing in his car, which I now realize I shouldn't have done, but couldn't help it! =)

Well that day he told me he was gonna call me later and after school I ran into him and saw him giving his number to some girl, but I didn't feel the right to get mad because he's not my boyfriend. What a little player he thinks he is! Little does he know I am too, but ...

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Guys ...Is big Beautiful?


Posted Thursday July 10 2008, 2:48 am

f 17

now being serious
I think big is beautiful
I look at women like Queen Latifah and Tyra Banks
and they are Thick beautiful women

but then you have the Paris Hilton's and the Nicole Richies
who are dam near a string and thats what america thinks is right.
thats what men think is "Hot"

but to me they have little girl bodies

now i'm a thick girl and i love it
but i still sometimes feel the need to be thin
not because i'm not happy with myself
but because of the way others may look at me
my skinny friends get attention from guys our age
but i get it from men that are 20, 21 ,22

I jus rea...

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Why cant anyone love me


Posted Thursday July 10 2008, 2:13 am

So well everytime I start likin a guy... They like me back but after we have sex a few times they fall in love with someone. and its never me. I fall way to hard for guys and I wish I just could stop caring. Im tired of this shit. I want sumthing real. What am I doing wrong ? Please sumone help me out. They tell me how hot I am and beautiful and that Im prefect. BUT WTF dont they stay with me?


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I know he lied to me.. but whats good with the rest of the puzzle??


Posted Thursday July 10 2008, 2:11 am

17 F

okay so theres this boy. our friends introduced us about 9 months ago. We always had a little thing for eachother. but I thought he was too dorky for me haha. Then there was some controversy bc his GF found a pic of me and him on myspace and flipped so me n her almost fought but i reassured her that we were "just friends". anywayys.. about a month ago we were hangin out at a mutual friends house and that night we went for a walk on the beach. we laid in the sand talking and stuff and he ended up kissing me (very cute). and he tried to go further and i stopped him and thankfully he respected my decision. I called him a couple of weeks ago to talk about the incident and he says "he didnt remember" but i...

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