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Ok, I think i might be bi. i am 14/f and i know i like guys, but i think i kind of have a crush on my best freind. I have had some dreams about making out with girls, and stuff, and i kind of like it. But i havent ever kissed a girl (but i wanna try it) But i know most of you will say because of my age im just curious, well if thats the truth, then the curiousness is getting worse! And also im used to seeing gay/lesbian couples, because my aunts are lesbians. So im around that alot, and that might be affecting the way i think, I am a big supporter of gay rightts becuase of them, and well im just not sure if i am bi or not. So, im just confused, and at the moment im also confused because im in the process of breaking up with my boyfriend, because i've lost the spark of us being together (after a year and 8 months)
SO anyways, what do you think?
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Whatever your sexuality, you deserve to be with someone you really care for and who cares for you. Keeping an open mind and heart might help you sort out your feelings/thoughts about whether you are bi or not.
Chances are, we're all born with a certain sexuality. The thing is, it can take awhile to figure out what that is! You're at exactly the right age to be questioning things, as you'll be going through puberty, becoming more attracted to people than you could be when you were younger, and having hormones race around. If you are bi, then you're actually pretty lucky to have figured this out now rather than years later.
Have the courage to trust in yourself, and to believe you'll know the right thing to do at the right time. I wish you the best!
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it sounds like you are kinda curious, but its not weird to you because your allegedly used to seeing that kind of thing.
but about your crush on your friend? what i would recommend is DO NOT tell her. my friend told me she had a crush on me and it totally ruined the whole thing because i didnt feel the same way. but you never know, she may feel the same way. im just saying that might not be a risk to take. but good luck and i hope you get this all figured out!
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I think it's totally fine. Give it a try. I think the only way you'll know for sure is if you try being with a girl. My best friend that I've known for 7 years is bi and at first she thought it was just her being curious but then she was with a girl and loved it. She still loves guys but she knew for sure that she likes both. So, if you feel like your not into your b.f anymore and you feel the best thing is to break up, then, do what you've got to do. And if you really feel very strongly about being bi. Test the waters. There is nothing wrong with learning who you are. It's part of life. As long as you arent hurting your self or others, have some fun. =) If you are bi, that's awesome, good for you. And if you find out you aren't. That's totally cool too.
Anyway, don't worry about it and give it a try if you want to and see what happens.
Hope this is what you were asking and that it helps. Good luck!
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