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Why cant anyone love me
So well everytime I start likin a guy... They like me back but after we have sex a few times they fall in love with someone. and its never me. I fall way to hard for guys and I wish I just could stop caring. Im tired of this shit. I want sumthing real. What am I doing wrong ? Please sumone help me out. They tell me how hot I am and beautiful and that Im prefect. BUT WTF dont they stay with me?
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You need to get out more and stay away from those bad guys and start hanging with the guys who seem to notice you and respect you. The right guy it seems for you won't be talking sexual more giving you complements and going on dates with you. The ones coming right out saying your hot are the ones just wanting to get in your pants. Once they get in your pants they move on then do the same with the next girl. Just relax and don't rush anything the right person will only show after you let time go by and see the person for who they are not for what they want.
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Because you're choosing the wrong guys, the guys that don't really care about you, the guys who just want to get you into bed, the kind of guys who don't love you... the ones who only love sex. You need to find guys who like you for what's inside, not just out. And this time don't have sex with him until after you two are married or in love, i would wait until marriage because then you know he married you because you're his ONE true love, and there'll be nobody else but you. If you want something 'real', stop falling for guys who play you.
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Well, could start with not sleeping with them until you reach a year or something close enough, some guys are just really practical and os when they get the 'treasure', they don't find the need to carry on with the same person. Don't get me wrong, there are many guys too, that are the complete opposite, but for now, I think you should just relax with the sex, try not to have sex with your boyfriend until the two of you actually LOVE each other, and want to have sex because of the love, not just because the two of you are in a relationship.
So clear it all up by starting over, be single for a while, this will give you some time to just reflect and see what your goal is, then when you have spoken to a guy for a month or two and you both would like a relationship together, then, take the next step, dating. After you two have dated for... let's say, 8-9 or even longer, which is better, than you can give him the extra mile (sex)! That way, the guy appreciates you more as he understand the reason you are allowing sex is because you love him and not because of anything else. Do it for you and not for him...
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