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I know he lied to me.. but whats good with the rest of the puzzle??
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okay so theres this boy. our friends introduced us about 9 months ago. We always had a little thing for eachother. but I thought he was too dorky for me haha. Then there was some controversy bc his GF found a pic of me and him on myspace and flipped so me n her almost fought but i reassured her that we were "just friends". anywayys.. about a month ago we were hangin out at a mutual friends house and that night we went for a walk on the beach. we laid in the sand talking and stuff and he ended up kissing me (very cute). and he tried to go further and i stopped him and thankfully he respected my decision. I called him a couple of weeks ago to talk about the incident and he says "he didnt remember" but i knew he was lying so i was like whatever. then his bestfriend ends up telling me that yes he deffinently lied to me. and i'm hurt about it b.c i look dumb for telling his now "ex" thet we're "Just Friends" and i've developed more feelings for him but 1.idk if he feels the same way 2.idk y he would lie to me 3. should i confront him? 4. is it b.c. of the age diff? (he's 3yrs older) I just dont know what to do
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Wow,he said he dosen't remember? I'm really sorry for saying this but what a jerk.He lied to you so he could cover it up so his girlfriend would never know what happened,it's like he's believing himself that nothing really did happen.Im sorry hun, but i think you should move on from this guy.He's causing too much drama,and you don't want to get involved in it.You don't want a guy like that.
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Guys and their ego are just things you can't really escape from. He probably feels embarrassed or stupid because you sort of rejected him, when he wanted to go further, so don't take it as something big and as if he lied to you, but simply, because he didn't want to look stupid, remembering the past and all that.
And it is ok if you have developed feelings for him, it happens, and you told his girlfriend BEFORE the incident took place, so it wasn't your fault, you shouldn't be feeling 'dumb' or anything, only because you and the boy were just friends and still ARE!! With just the slight hint that you two may have feeligns for each other. I suggest you talk to this boy and ask him what is going on, and the reason you stopped him was only because he had a girlfriend, he will understand. If he really wants to be with you then he'll break up with his current girlfriend and be with you, it might cause some friction between you and his ex, but things change and happen after some time, so she should understand and let go, but explain to her just in case!
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