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he didn't call AGAIN!
17, F
I used to talk to this guy ryan last summer, but I forgot why we stopped. Like I always do when I stop talking to a guy/boyfriend. Hahaha.
So 2days ago we finally got reunited in summer school. Ryan is very popular with the ladies because of his wonderful, excellent, omgoodness, wow, physical experience. So to make a long story short, we ended up kissing in his car, which I now realize I shouldn't have done, but couldn't help it! =)
Well that day he told me he was gonna call me later and after school I ran into him and saw him giving his number to some girl, but I didn't feel the right to get mad because he's not my boyfriend. What a little player he thinks he is! Little does he know I am too, but I'm not a hoochie about it! Hahaha. *Well he never called.
Ryan is the type of guy who expects a girl to be ALL on him. He probably expected me to call him, but no. I will NEVER be on him. The thing about him is he's "shy" when it comes to being with him in person and saying something. So I was being nice the next day. I am really close with his guy friends and talked to them first and laughed with them and hugged. (Maybe he got mad because of it??) After he was staring and deciding if he should walk over to me or not, i said "Whoa why didn't you call me?" he said "oh I will tonight! I will. I will." And he gave me this loooong tight wonderful hug. =). And afterwards, to make it so great, I turned around and almost ran into some guy. Hahahaha. But anyways....
*He didn't call again!!!! I don't know how to act when I see him? He's going to stare and want me to talk. Should I just smile and wave and say a little hi? Should I be mad at him? Should I ignore him? Act like it never happend?
Thaaaanks.
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It sounds to me like he's just being a typical player. And though you may not think you're being ALL on him, asking him why he didn't call and talking to his friends is just giving him more power AND feeding his ego.
I think he might be playing the "shy" role because girls find that cute and charming. But he certainly isn't "shy" when it comes to giving out his number to girls. Strange...
I think you should just try and show that it doesn't bother you. At least make it seem that way. If he thinks you don't care, he'll either not care himself and find some other girl (or girls) or it will actually "ruffle his feathers", so to speak, and actually upset him that you don't care. Maybe enough to make HIM start doing the work. It's all part of the chase, you know?
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ugh same sisuation happened to me.Honestly,if the guy promises he would call you and he hasen't it's a sign that you should probably move on ( i mean you even saw him gives his number to another girl).He probably promised to call 10 other girls before you.If a guy really liked you he would'nt forget to call you.I would just be friendly with him since he has summer school with you but nothing more,you don't want to get involved with him.
♥ danielle
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