im almost 16 my bf is 16 and we went to have sex for both our first time and when he was about to put his penis in it went soft we tried later on the same thing happened i gave him a handjob but he couldnt get another erection hes really embarrassed what can we do?
I don't think it's anything to be too concerned about as of right now. If later on you guys try again and he's really into it and really turned on and he still can't get it up, then it might be more of a problem. [ Jehmehh's advice column | Ask Jehmehh A Question ]
Advicelady6798 answered Thursday July 10 2008, 10:25 pm: Well, since you tried and didn't go thorugh with it, in the back of his mind it might have ended up turning him off. Maybe subconciously its all he wanted and when you did the second thing, it didn't seem as good. Give it some time, maybe a week, and try again. Right now, I think it is his pride but within time he should be back to himself. [ Advicelady6798's advice column | Ask Advicelady6798 A Question ]
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