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What Should I Do ?
15/f.
Ok, so i've been goin out with this guy for about 10 or 11 months, he's my best friend as well as my boyfriend, we've known each other since we were 8 years old. so its a really strong bond we have. But just recently things have like started to heat up abit, he told me he wants to go further with me, and that he loves me so much. He said he knows we could go further and I want to. But I'm not to sure anymore as he's been doing really minxy gestures and it feels good, i won't deny that but I'm just feeling this doubt.
Should I Go For It ?
Or Not ?
Help ?
Signed, Lou.
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wow3 lol your still very young and if you are asking this question then it pretty much prooves you are not ready yet because we cant tell you whether you are ready or not because we dont know the whole situation and you need to decide for yourself but you need to be 100% ready before you make this committment and obviously your not not to be mean or anything but I honestly think that you should wait you have your whole life still ahead of you to do this. Hope I helped!
-love Chelsea
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The fact that you're asking this question tells me you're not ready. I didn't say you weren't old enough- I said you weren't ready. This question shows me that you are having second thoughts about all of this, and whether you asked on this website or to someone in person, it would still mean you were unsure.
I say you should wait it out and just let him know that. Then when you feel comfortable, which I'm sure you will eventually, then maybe go further. Sometimes taking it slow is the best thing you can do. That way, when you do start going a little further, you know it's what you want, and it's all the more better =].
--Jack
(16/m)
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Nobody can make this decision for you, although if you're waiting until you're absolutely sure, chances are you'll be waiting forever. Go with your gut instinct.
Whatever you decide to do, do it safely of course.
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Your young still. Don't push it. Because soon you might go a little too far and have dire consequences. I personally say no, even if you want to and you think it feels good. Plus be warned he's going to try really hard to get you to do it, he's a guy and testosterone levels rise at his age, making him really want to have sex, consequences or not.
I say wait. No matter what happens, just wait.
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