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I got kicked out of my boyfriends suprise party.


Posted Saturday October 11 2008, 10:27 pm

I wasn't really invited, but my boyfriends mom was all nice to me and stuff she invited me in to my bfs suprise party. I was there for about 2 hours or something and then all the sudden two boys that were my friends came in and she pretty much kicked me out, well she said i have to leave and so do the other girls. well two other girls stayed. well its not my boyfriends fault. but im mad at him for some reason. wat do i do?

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I got dumped When I loved him and someone else at the same time


Posted Saturday October 11 2008, 7:38 pm

Josh 17
AJ 18
Me 15

Ok so as many of you might no I was dateing Josh but he dumpd me for the other girl [Jess] on the same day I was going to dump him because my ex [AJ] came back in my life. AJ and I dated for 5 months and I love my vergianty to him so I still love him. Well i told him how Josh dumped me and he got pissy and he said that he wont stand for it so he is going to confrunt him about it and he will always protect me. Dose he still love me 2? Ethier way he is going to collage friday so I am REALLY upset and I dont want to show it because we are just friends now. I dont know how I can be friends with them both and not show I have feelings for ethier of them. But if AJ does still love me how do I take it I mean he is moving...do I take him back?

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OffLimits.


Posted Saturday October 11 2008, 1:31 pm

So there's this guy, and he's my neighbor; but his sister's are bestfriend's with my brother. So it makes him a total no-no. But I just can't help myself but to like him. I'm in eighth grade, but he's in tenth. Everything about it's wrong. Do you think I like him because I know he's off limits ? What should I do ?!

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dating


Posted Saturday October 11 2008, 1:21 pm

16/f
Okay, well i went to a party last night and the guy that i am "talking" to was there to. We have been "talking" for about a month now. We talk on the phone every night and we see eachother in school and say hi and stuff. Well last night, he was like "come on, let's go outside for a while." so i was like "okay." Before he said this my friend came up to me and said she talked to him and he said that he might ask me out tonight. So, we were walking around outside by ourselves and he said "i think we should go out." Then i said "yea." After that he said "Sound good?" and then i said "yes!" and he was like "alright" and he gave me a hug. Was thi...

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From lovers to friends


Posted Saturday October 11 2008, 12:27 pm

I met a girl a while back, and we started out being good friends. We got along perfectly. We were such good friends. We didn't fight or argue or anything. Well, we started going further with the relationship, and we fell in love.. sorta. Well, I did at least. We were everything except officially bf/gf. We even slept together.

Then she said no. She told me that she didn't want to date me because I have bad communication skills. I told her I would still be friends, because we made good friends. But now, after all this.. we've been fighting more, and arguing. I still want to date her, in a small way. Not so much though now.

I regret sleeping with her, and I wish that the love thing never happened. Last night, we h...

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I don't know what the problem is.


Posted Saturday October 11 2008, 12:23 pm

Ok so I've been dating this guy for a little over a year now.Recently something happened that i thought never would..his friend started flirting with me.Well to save some typing here me and him ended up liking each other. he told me he would go out with me if i broke off things with my current boyfriend.so i did. wasnt a good idea because the whole plan crashed and burned. my boyfriend that i broke up with found out that i had been planning this thing and his friend screwed me over and showed him all the text messages i sent him about how much i liked him. so long story short me and my boyfriend that i broke up with are going back out and i havent talked to his friend in awhile but just last night we started talking and he was drunk and he ...

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he lied about the break up but still wants to be friends?


Posted Saturday October 11 2008, 12:18 pm

15/f
(sorry it’s so long but please help)

So I was dating the starting quarterback for my highschool football team and he had gotten a concussion a couple of weeks a go. He was diagnose with post concussion syndrom that made him depressed for a while. I told him that I will always be here for him if he needed me to be. And that I love him unconditionally. He said he loves me too and that no matter how it didn’t seem like it at the moment he did. A week later he breaks up with me saying that his concussion messed up his emotions so much that he can only see me as a friend now. I didn’t believe it because he seemed super happy after the break up. So I gave him a second chance to tell me the truth. I walked up to hi...

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online love


Posted Saturday October 11 2008, 11:57 am

A lot of people probably wont understand this. But I fell in love with someone on the internet. Like REALLY fell in love, for the first time in my life. He wants to talk on the phone and you know...but I'm worried about what I will sound like and I've never had "phone sex" so I don't want to sound bad or embarrass myself. I dont think he will, but what if he starts calling me all the time? Any comments/suggestions are greatly appreciated :]

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Final goodbye?


Posted Saturday October 11 2008, 8:36 am

There is this boy Elvis, to me he is amazing..we have the perfect story.
I have known him scence 6th grade,then i liked this other boy Garin,Elvis was an ass to me omfg he was soo mean.Then in 7th grade he wasnt that bad but still a jerk. So half the year in i had to move-_-, i hated it then when i went to the other school i meet a new boy,Lany he is my good friend now.. then i moved back,in the 8th grade but i still didnt see elvis Becuase i went to the other middle school. But i wasnt thinking of him at all..then the end of there year happends i was so happy i just got out of the worst reashonship of my life.I went to the library.and there he is.he is like long time no see.i was like ya whats up? He had just got out of a bad relati...

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Relationship Problem!!!!


Posted Saturday October 11 2008, 1:06 am

Sorry if this is long

I am 17 years old. I have a son. I just moved to Missouri. I work and Im starting college in spring. I meet this guy. He gives me butterflies and i cant stop thinking about him. i mean all day and all night everything. hes perfect. the problem is hes a sex addict. which isnt bad for me i love it. i am worried thats all our relationship will go to. he treats my son as he would his own if he had any. he feels now as if he is a bad boyfriend. which he isnt. and i told him that a million times.. so i told him i was getting off the phone. well we did...

fyi.. its possible for me to be pregnant again..

i dont want to be lectured about being to young for kids and stuff i need rela...

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Is this even right?


Posted Saturday October 11 2008, 12:16 am

I'm 17 and I'm dating a guy who is 22. The age of consent in the state where I live is 18. Will he get in trouble if he kisses me (and someone finds out and tells)?

Also, I've been wondering this lately, why would a 22 year old man be interested in a 17 year old girl? Is this anything to be concerned about? I'm not getting any creepy vibes from him...

Oh and I don't know if this matters but we're both in college so we're in similar stages of our lives.


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best friend has a boyfriend.


Posted Friday October 10 2008, 10:42 pm

ever since one of my best friends got her boyfriend almost a year ago, things haven't been the same between us. first off, she's been to third base, and she told me this about three to four months after, which really pissed me off. and every few days, she complains about her stress causers and then feels badly and asks what's new with me and i just say nothing because she couldn't trust me enough to tell me about the things she's done with her boyfriend even though she told other people. it's not his fault, but he's really affected our friendship. i constantly feel pressured to get a boyfriend and all she ever talks about is him and i feel like having a boyfriend would be stressful because you'd have to think of cute gifts and i'm not a...

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boyfriend with body odor


Posted Friday October 10 2008, 6:49 pm


im female 18 and my boyfriend is 20 everything about him is great except for one thing i dont think my boyfriend has good hygiene (unbrushed teeth,body odor)i dont know how to tell him while being nice.

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Ugh He Hates Me or What?


Posted Friday October 10 2008, 5:31 pm

This guy he used to flirt with me and I thought he liked me so I asked him out and he just wanted to be friends. Well now he doesnt really flirt with me no more and I feel like he hates me now and I want him to flirt with me and atleast talk to me and be my friend, how do I do that?

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Aaaand the walls come tumb'ling down...


Posted Friday October 10 2008, 1:21 pm

I'm 21/f, he's 23.
So, there's this guy. We dated for awhile, then "broke up" but didn't. He was a pretty awful boyfriend, but he's turned into my best friend. We went through a very rough patch, thanks to his family (they hate me), and I kicked him out of my life, kinda. After a week, he called me, begging for another chance (at being friends), which, after much discussing and debating, I gave him.
Since then, he's been the sweetest, most appreciative guy I've ever met. I thought I had begun to fall out of love with him, but now all those feelings are rushing back. He hugs me, he cuddles me, plays me love songs (he told me once that the music he listens to tends to reflect what he's feeling)...I feel safe and rig...

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Does he like me back?


Posted Friday October 10 2008, 9:55 am

Iam going to the technical college and there's this guy i like and that I think likes me to but he's 39 and iam only 19 and I think he's kind of old for me but I asked my cousin about it becouse I live with her and i wanted to see what she thought and she said that age is just a number. kevin bought me a coffee one day he offered to carry the coffee to the student lounge for me so i could drink it and he's always helping me with schoolwork so could anybody tell me if he likes me>

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Cool Ways to Ask a Guy to Sadie Hawkins?


Posted Friday October 10 2008, 7:58 am

I'm looking for creative ideas for asking a guy to Sadies.

Someone at my school already used the "washable and permanent marker on a t-shirt" technique, which I think is ingenious, but I don't want to copy her. lol

All I have so far is sending him a note or a sports card that says, "Football helmet $50, Jersey $35, Football $20, date with (my name) to Sadies... Priceless"

Any cool ideas?

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Boyfriend's friend? What to do?


Posted Friday October 10 2008, 1:38 am

So I'm REALLY not a jealous person by nature. My boyfriend of almost a year and I have the same circle of friends and we're really open and basically very happy. And we're okay with each other's other-sex friends.
And yet, there's this one, who for some reason makes me insanely jealous.
See, one night we were talking about how it's okay to find other people attractive, so sort of jokingly we were mentioning people (like rock stars and all that) and he said her. And I was okay with it at first. Then, though, inexplicably whenever he brought her up I felt this weird sense of sadness and anger.
She's in one class with me and one with him, and apparently they talk sometimes, so he tells me about her occasionally. She has a ...

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i think i love my best friend, and he's not even mine..


Posted Thursday October 9 2008, 10:50 pm

ANYONE WHO ANSWER'S WILL RECIEVE A 5 because i thank you for reading my long situation!

im 18 years old and a female.
i have or USE to have a male best friend, whose now almost 17. we hung out alot and i secretly liked him but never told him and i think he secretly liked me too but then he got a girlfriend about three years ago and there STILL going out, without ever breaking up and they RARELY ever fight and are together pretty much 24/7 when either one doesnt have sports. recently or starting about a year ago, i go without seeing or talking to him months at a time. it kills me, but i feel like i shouldn't text him because if he missed me too he would text me right? keep in mind a few months ago he tried getting with ...

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My ex boyfriend.


Posted Thursday October 9 2008, 10:03 pm

I met this guy this beginning of school, and I was new to the school. I was talking to one of my friends there, and I saw him, and I was like shittttttttt who's that?! And she told me and I was like I want him, I'm gonna get him. And sure thing, I did get him. We got to know each other real well, we starting falling in love I swear, and we were together for about 2 weeks at this time. We had so much in common, I came into his room, it was full of German flags, I was like holy shit, you like Germany?! And he's like hell yeah! And my news was that well hey I was born there and I go there every year. I fucking love Germany. It was crazy. We finished each other sentences. Told each other we loved each other, cared about each other, and missed e...

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