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OffLimits.
So there's this guy, and he's my neighbor; but his sister's are bestfriend's with my brother. So it makes him a total no-no. But I just can't help myself but to like him. I'm in eighth grade, but he's in tenth. Everything about it's wrong. Do you think I like him because I know he's off limits ? What should I do ?!
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hey sweetie.
age aint nothin but a number :)
and there's that saying, "you always want what you cant have" and i think that's what your going through right now. we're more attracted to someone, that we can't have. i dont think its so wrong though, and i dont consider this boy to be off limits with you just because your brother is friends with his sisters. ask your brother what he thinks about it, im sure he wouldnt care! if you need anything else let me know ♥ LU
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well i dont belive that any body likes someone because their ''off limits'' but i think you like him ..... well.. just because you like him take your chance and askhim out it dosent matter if you brother is bet friends with his sister if you never try youll never know
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Well I think if you really do like this guy, maybe you should tell your brother how you feel about this. If your brother is friends with this guy's sisters why is that ok but you cant like this guy? Maybe if you are honest with your brother and get more insight on why its such a no no it might help. I dont know why your brother would be so against it, unless he thinks this guy you do like is bad news. Another thing is do you think this guy really does like you? If this is in a crush faze of sorts I would just keep things the same for now. If later on you do find out that this guy does like you and your still feeling the same way about him, you really do need to be upfront with your brother. Brothers are funny that way they will lay down the law to try to protect you, why you stand by and watch them do whatever they want. Be patient till you have all the facts about everything. Then you can see what direction you need to go in. I hope this helps let me know what you think...
one step at a time take it always onedayatatime
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Basically age doesn't matter. What you should do is try to stay good friends maybe now you and him won't work out. But eventually if its meant to be you may find your way together when your both are grown and more mature. Right now its the whole you want what you can't have. So listen to your heart and do what you think is right.
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