I got dumped When I loved him and someone else at the same time
Question Posted Saturday October 11 2008, 7:38 pm
Josh 17
AJ 18
Me 15
Ok so as many of you might no I was dateing Josh but he dumpd me for the other girl [Jess] on the same day I was going to dump him because my ex [AJ] came back in my life. AJ and I dated for 5 months and I love my vergianty to him so I still love him. Well i told him how Josh dumped me and he got pissy and he said that he wont stand for it so he is going to confrunt him about it and he will always protect me. Dose he still love me 2? Ethier way he is going to collage friday so I am REALLY upset and I dont want to show it because we are just friends now. I dont know how I can be friends with them both and not show I have feelings for ethier of them. But if AJ does still love me how do I take it I mean he is moving...do I take him back?
SWEETXLOVE answered Sunday October 12 2008, 1:01 am: hey baby!
well..let's just say there are many different options for ya here. i still think that aj could have feelings for you, or it's just that he really does care for you and doesn't want to see you get hurt but see's you as more of a best friend. i would tell him how you feel before he goes to college and see what you get in return. some people do the whole long-distance college thing, and if he isn't going that far away i would say go for it if he wants to get back together. it's really hard staying friends with ex's though, trust me. you start to get all your feelings back again and then want to be something more again, even if it's not the best for you. i use to hang out with my ex because we were best friends, and i wanted to stay like that even after we broke up after a year but it was just too hard. i wouldn't be anything more with josh because it seems that you still really love aj and i don't think it would be fair to either one of you to be with him again, and if you really think you can still be friends with josh after you two broke up, go for it sweetie but i just don't want you to get in deeper than you already are. i hope i have helped some if you need anything else, or need some clarification just let me know! ♥ LU [ SWEETXLOVE's advice column | Ask SWEETXLOVE A Question ]
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