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I don't know what the problem is.
Ok so I've been dating this guy for a little over a year now.Recently something happened that i thought never would..his friend started flirting with me.Well to save some typing here me and him ended up liking each other. he told me he would go out with me if i broke off things with my current boyfriend.so i did. wasnt a good idea because the whole plan crashed and burned. my boyfriend that i broke up with found out that i had been planning this thing and his friend screwed me over and showed him all the text messages i sent him about how much i liked him. so long story short me and my boyfriend that i broke up with are going back out and i havent talked to his friend in awhile but just last night we started talking and he was drunk and he was telling me how he was going to go have sex with this girl and all this and it made me mad..i dont know why but it did. i still like him and he still likes me and i know i have a boyfriend but i just dont know what to do about how much this bothers me..anything i can do?
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You need to think about this. Who has done more damage to you? you're boyfriend that wanted to stay that your boyfriend in the first place or his best friend that wanted you guys to break up in the first place?
If a guy really MATURELY cares about you, he won't do anything to ruin the happiness that you already have with someone else.
And why should you want someone that would brag about having sex with some girl of whom he hasn't even had sex with yet? and yet is drinking while he does it. He shouldn't have sex but I'm not here to preach (because I'm guessing you're younger than 19). If you guys ever had something, he could spill it all out when he is drinking.
The guy gave you up, your current boyfriend of whom was the guy you crushed in the first place is going back out with you because he still loves you and hopes it will have a happy ending. Are you willing to try to write the story?
I hope this puts it in an outsider perspective. Sorry if it sounds harsh but you need to read the other person's feelings too.
-KD/f/16
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This just goes into the whole idea, you want what you can't have. You wanted his friend because you knew that you had someone, and that it'd be difficult to ever get together. Right now, you should just really think this out. Think about who you really love. Think about what each of you have in common. Dating his other friend, that'd just start everything from new. And you already have been in a relationship for over a year, so there had to be a reason you were with him, right? And his friend, how long so you think it'd really last? And it seems like he was trying to turn your boyfriend against you. Again, just think things out thoroughly before you make anymore choices.
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