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I got kicked out of my boyfriends suprise party.
I wasn't really invited, but my boyfriends mom was all nice to me and stuff she invited me in to my bfs suprise party. I was there for about 2 hours or something and then all the sudden two boys that were my friends came in and she pretty much kicked me out, well she said i have to leave and so do the other girls. well two other girls stayed. well its not my boyfriends fault. but im mad at him for some reason. wat do i do?
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I would first ask him how it went after you left the party without holding anything against him because he himself probably didn't know what was going on.
Ask him who the 2 girls were. I know how it feels though when a mother is over controling. My first and last boyfriend I had he broke up with me because my mom would never let me get in his car and go somewhere with him but I understand why because I am young but I hated it.
But in a way is he wasn't able to respect my mother's wishes, it showed he wasn't really respecting me either. Just be careful on how you address the situation.
Hope it works out.
-KD/f/16
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Well honey I would not stay mad at your boyfriend. If his mother asked you to leave for any reason there is not really anything he could have done to make you feel better. He himself has to listen and respect his mother's wishs even if he does not like it. As far as the other girls that got to stay, I think I would maybe be more curious or hurt by that one. I would be thankful for the time you did get to spend there and be happy you where included. Think of it this way, would you want your boyfriend to be mad or upset with you, if your mother did that to him?
I suggest just asking your boyfriend why you think his mother acted that way. Maybe even asking him why did those other girls get to stay when you where not allowed and how unfair that seemed to you. As far as staying mad at him, I think thats really not very fair to him at all, when he had no control over it. So you need to let it go honey don't be angry with him. It might even make him angry at you if you take it out on him. Just talk to him like I said ask those questions, if he has no answers then he really probaby doesnt know either. WE all have to do what are parents want when we live at home, and alot of times we dont like it. I hope this helps you out, best of luck keep in touch..
Remember to take a deep breath and take it onedayatatime
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