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online love
A lot of people probably wont understand this. But I fell in love with someone on the internet. Like REALLY fell in love, for the first time in my life. He wants to talk on the phone and you know...but I'm worried about what I will sound like and I've never had "phone sex" so I don't want to sound bad or embarrass myself. I dont think he will, but what if he starts calling me all the time? Any comments/suggestions are greatly appreciated :]
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You should do what you feel comforable with. But some tips on how to handle the phone sex thing if it ever did get to that point is this. Let him talk sexy to you on the phone and just listen, you can just respond with ya. I have done that a few times. You dont really have to say much if the guy is a talker. When typing online with him it should give you a pretty good of an idea of how he might be on the phone. So keep chatting online. Get comfortable with him on the phone just talking for awhile first. Then when your ready to take that next step you will know. As far as online love, its really not that uncommon. People have met online and even have gotten married. Its rare but not impossible. So dont let what others say bring you down. One last thing, doing something for the first time even though your nervous can be very fun and exciting. The great thing about doing something like this over the phone is they cant see the shocked looks on your face, or you kindof giggling and covering up the phone. Not saying that you would but that has happened to me. I hope this helps lets me know what you think.....
Take a deep breath and take it onedayatatime
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I understand online love, most of my friends don't. But yeah, maybe you should just stick to cybering instead of phone sex. Haha. I can imagine how akward that would be. So my advice is, just tell him you'd feel weird doing that, but would talk on the phone. ;D
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