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My crush :/


Question Posted Saturday October 11 2008, 10:44 am

Hey, just to let you know this will be long...sorry i am a 13 year old. girl

Okay, his name is Matt..he is in my 3 period gym class and he is AMAZING he is number 2 on the football team AND quarter back. In, gym class their
is 7th grade girls(me) and 8th grade boys (Matt) Well, he is an 8th grader but...we are the same age ..13... He is so cute. I have been writing him notes lately ( 2 ) and he hasn't wrote back...the first one I didn't tell him to write back...but the second note i did. I didn't say anything wrong in the letters...i just told him that he was cute...and if he new me...is anything wrong with that...? The second letter i asked him if he new who i was yet...and I described what i was wearing in gym class..and he still didn't know who I was..!! I told him my name. In, gym yesterday...(that's the day I wrote the second note) we played a game wear we stand in the middle and try to get balls in a trash can(i know dumb). He stood beside me so many times during the game...and he still didn't know who the hell I was!!! I also was wearing my necklace in big letters that said my name... and he didn't know who I was... :( The first day i wrote him the note.. at the end of the day i saw him come down the hallway..behind me!!! I put the side of my lunch box that said my name straight behind me so
he can see my name...apparently he is not to bright...he still didn't know who I was!!! Do you think he knows who i am and just doesn't want me to get my hopes up ? Or, does he not know who i am. Please...help ....I like Matt so much...please any advice...and please tell me what to do to catch his attention.. Thanks so much for reading !!!

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Jackieee answered Saturday October 11 2008, 6:44 pm:
There's a very good chance that he just doesn't know who you are. See, I only found out recently (believe it or not), that guys don't really look into things deeply.

Like how I see a piece of clothing compared to how my boyfriend sees it are two totally different comparisons. My point of view would be: its cute, detailed, the print is very nice, perfectly fitted and the length is just right.

But how my boyfriend would see it is just: its really cool.

Now, I'm not saying all guys are like this, but a good majority are. And he probably wouldn't think to look at your lunchbox or necklace. And like you said, he's not too bright. Alongside him not looking too deeply into things, I'd say that he probably just doesn't know you.

The best way for you to know him, is to just go up to him and say like, "hey, I'm _______" and if you want to include that you wrote him the notes, go for it.

Hope I helped!

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Dakizah answered Saturday October 11 2008, 2:25 pm:
I honestly think you should just stop playing games, and just go up and introduce yourself. Confidence is something guys really like, and it will prolly impress him. Having him guess will only put more stress on you, so I just think you should go for it. :]

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