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Boyfriend problems
Posted Tuesday April 7 2009, 8:28 pm
Am I overreacting? I am 27 years old and my boyfriend is 31 and we are both divorced and we both have 2 children each when I met him he seemed like a family person but know he indicates he's not. all he wants to do is go to clubs, be with his friend, I feel like why are you even with me he has custody of his child that is 5 years old, we've been together for 2 years and a half but. I'm the type wants to have a family and settle and hes not but yet he wants his child to have a home with a really family. His ex wife is another person that only believes in clubbing and she was another man and that is why she abandoned her child and she is another one of my problem she has a boyfriend but still wants to get back with my boyfriend and writes n...
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do i still possibly have a chance?
Posted Tuesday April 7 2009, 3:40 pm
On friday I told my guy friend from school that I liked him (i was really scared to do it so i texted him during class while he sat right behind me, stupid i know but that's what happened). He didn't respond and he didn't say anything to me the next 2 periods either (since we have them together). I'm not going to go into detail, but certain things he did made it obivious that this freaked him out, and he really didn't know what to say. But he doesn't really show his emotions on the outside, so anybody else would've had no idea that he felt this way or that anything happened in the first place, so he's pretty hard to read. He didn't say anything to me over the weekend, and we didn't talk yesterday. I'm well aware that it wasn't exactly t...
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should I take her back?
Posted Tuesday April 7 2009, 3:18 pm
Me and my girlfriend are 20 years old. We been going out for 2 years and 10 months. But on our anniversary I found a text message in her phone from another guy which called her babe and if he could call her at 9.15. I broke up with her and I don't know what to do.
She told me that she met this guy once before we started going out, he lives in LA but I don't know what to believe, she also told me that she's never done anything. And doesn't plan to meet him. She said she doesn't talk to him all the time, but its only been about less than 1 month that he started talking to her.
I don't know what to do. I love her. But I don't know if I can forgive her. What do I do?
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He thinks I'm cheating
Posted Tuesday April 7 2009, 2:34 pm
My boyfrend thnks I'm cheating on him.
I'm not! I shall say I'm attractive and a lot of guys like me, but i only have eyes for him. I'm also friends with mostly guys and I told him that when we first started talking and he semed to understand...
but I've told him everything imaginable how I felt and how I wasn't lying. I've even asked him if he's the on cheating and he says he's not. Today, he told me he's going to find out that I am some kind of way and I said I did not care because I'm not cheating.
& I always let him go through my phone & I go through his.
soooo... Wat can I do to prove to him I'm not? I'm sick of him saying it!
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boys, why -_-
Posted Tuesday April 7 2009, 12:27 pm
16/f
serious question and im looking for guys answers mostly. why cant you just like one girl? why do most of you have to been hooking up with alot of girls? i dont understand why one isnt good enough =( please help me understand.
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Someone thats good with relationship-type adivce.
Posted Tuesday April 7 2009, 8:47 am
Okay, well i have this bad habit to get REALLY jealous REALLY easily. But like, i cant even help myself. Cause ive never been this jealous before. Like, any other past boyfriends ive had i didnt even care, but now my boyfriend that we are REALLY serious about each other, i get REALLY jealous. Like, if i see him looking at another girl, i feel like im not good enough...idk its really bad. And if he talks to another girl, idk i just fell like i dont matter? I do not know what the heck is wrong with me, but i try to stop myself cause ive talked to him about it and he saif that theres nothing to worry about, cause he only cares about me, and i definatly believe him i just keep thinking like that. But one of his ex-girlfriends i dont like, and b...
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Best friend dateless to prom
Posted Monday April 6 2009, 11:30 pm
So my best friend goes to a different school than me, but she doesnt have a date to prom and shes soo distraught about it :/ like she basically hates life just because of this. i do have a date so im afraid of saying something that will make her mad at me or somewhat resentful.
What can i say to her to make her feel better? Or what can i do for her? like bring her ben & jerry's with a note or something haha.
i dont know, i just feel bad because shes so miserable and i feel like i cant help her :(
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Calling a girl for the first time
Posted Monday April 6 2009, 10:49 pm
So there's this girl I like. Problem is I move an hour away in a couple months :(. Anyway, I don't have a lot of relationship experience. I see this girl in person a couple times a week (our group of friends hang out) and recently we've been texting more often and it's always a little flirty. Anyway, I would totally love it if she called me, so I'm thinking she might like it just as much if I called her. First question, if there was a guy you liked or were just getting to know, would you like it if they called you? Second, what should I talk about? Third, should I keep it short or what? Finally, would it be goofy to get a call from a guy and not have them ask you out or anything (I want to, just not sure its the best time yet)?
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boyfriend vs. best friend
Posted Monday April 6 2009, 9:25 pm
my boyfriend of almost five months has been kinda standoffish towards me lately. it's really starting to bother me. i really miss him. and now, to add to that problem, my best friend kinda flirts with him. she like goes out of her way to talk to him and make him laugh and write on his facebook and so on and i feel like he pays more attention to her than me. it drives me insane. i don't know what to do, it's breaking my heart. how can i bring this up to both of them without making them upset with me? what can i do to solve this problem? thanks in advance.
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A broken heart.
Posted Monday April 6 2009, 8:50 pm
Im almost 19, and saturday my boyfriend broke up with me. He's 20 and honestly he was my first love. I dont know what to do, we were both crying so much, and he kept saying how much he still cares about me, and how he just does'nt want to be in a relationship, at all right now, and that he could be making a huge mistake, but he just does'nt know. but that he just needs time, that he wants to still talk to me, and hang out with me. I am so lost. it hurts so bad, but im just going to wait it out and see what happens.
but can you guys help me out, what can i do to make him want to work this out again? to make him miss me so much??? please help out with any advice.
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this guyyy
Posted Monday April 6 2009, 5:40 pm
i already asked a question about this but its making me go crazy.
thankyou to the people who gave me advice
and i talked to my mom on the way to the store
and she blew up on me. again.
im 16 years old. and its normal to have a boyfriend/friends who are guys.
and hse wont except that.
my boyfriend (who i told her is just my friend, but she told me she thinks hes more than just a friend) she wont let me drive to his house this weekend
she told me next time i hangout with him, she wants to meet him. so i was being nice and i said that i could go pick him up (he lives abut 25 minutes away) and then i would bring him to my house to meet my parents. and she started yelling at me and stuff. and she ...
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{I AM A FEAK IN BED}
Posted Monday April 6 2009, 2:29 pm
My name is mark i am 29 and my girl is 26 and i am a freak in bed and i dont think my girl can handle all of this because i want to have sex at least everyday or every other day even 3 days its not just about me i make sure i please her rather its oral or what ever but she does not do the same for me what should i do??????? A man in need of passion in the deep abyess of her soul!!!!!!!!!
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Getting No Play At Home
Posted Monday April 6 2009, 2:01 pm
My Name is Mark and I am 29 and my girl is 26 we have a 1 year old son, for the past few months or so i have not been getting any attention for her i tried to talk to her about it a few times and tell her i need her but she takes it like i am complaining about her,I try to be romantic and try to get some alone time but i get i am to tried or the baby this or i need to do that and after that there no time for me and if we do have sex its not good she just doing it just for me and i dont like that so my question to you is what do i do because i am close to seeking time from anthor women but i dont want to i love her so what do i do?
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No BF??? HELP!!?!?! O_O
Posted Monday April 6 2009, 1:41 pm
17, guy, no gf for 4 years
Ok this is an unsual one but the girl i once liked.. her BF just cheated on her about 5 days ago i finnaly got over her after realising shes kinda annoying and not really my type (I started liking her randomly for no reason and i didnt know her, then i got to know her and regretted it a bit) anyways just in case i start liking her again (which will probably happen kus im a lonley bastard) how do i stop those feelings? i dont know her enough anyways and our "friendsip" hasnt really happend even though i tried thankas for ya answers
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3 guys.
Posted Monday April 6 2009, 1:25 pm
Okay here is the thing my ex and I broke up over a month ago. I had this guy friend Tony who invited me over to watch a movie and talk about things. He kissed me a cried and so he stopped. we ended up having sex some point that night. well it ended up he just wanted sex so i quit talking to him all together.
David.. I meet him talking to him online. we hung out a few times. he keep grabbing my face because i keep pulling away to kiss me and he kissed me for like 30 minutes well we ended up having sex. he really likes me a guess but im not attracted to him and i get annoyed easy with him
Dustin.. My best friends brother and my ex's cousin. my ex doesnt talk to any of them. We all drank at his sisters house one ...
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Need help, and fast.
Posted Monday April 6 2009, 1:20 pm
Hey everyone, im 15/f. and i have a boyfriend that lives across the country, and it kills me that i never see him. But we talk everyday, and msn and text, call, email. Everything. I trust him with all my heart, and i belive that he would NEVER cheat on me. Its just that i never see him, and it kills me. So i dont know what to do. Also, i LOVE my boyfriend with all my heart. But i have had a crush on someone at my school, and they like me. Should i stay with the one i love, and never see? Or be with someone i only like, and see everyday.?
Thank sin advance.
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How??
Posted Monday April 6 2009, 11:50 am
Ok so some of you may have read my question before about Jordan and Coston and i was wondering if anyone has ever felt this before but i have been with Jordan for so long that i dont know how to be without him does anyone know how to make this go away??? And how do i tell Jordan that i cant be with him anymore?? Thanks =]
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does anyone have an idea whats wrong with him?
Posted Monday April 6 2009, 9:04 am
heyy
i like this guy, lets call him Pete. and we were at school camp last week together. okay well he is new at our school and hes really shy. we had a dance party there and he asked me to go to his cabin room with him instead, and i did. we were sitting down and then he goes "Can i kiss you?" and i was shocked because he doesnt talk that much and hes shy so i went all red and didnt say anything and just hid my face and then i stood up and ran away and sat on the top bunk, and he was leaning against the ladder, and then a teacher came in .. xD. we got put on 1 hour of after school detention and he got upset about it because hes only been new for a month and didnt want his reputation with teachers to be ruined, and ...
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Does he like me?
Posted Monday April 6 2009, 8:06 am
(Im 17 senior and he is 17 too) Well i have a friend and i like her brother.
One night while i was talking to her on yahoo, she said that her brother wanted to add me.
So then an hour later he ims me saying its nice to meet me and we talk for about an hour..Then the next day on the bus..(we ride same bus to school)...his sister says that she guesses that he likes me. So when I get home and sign in, he is already talking to me. I ask him why he wasnted to add me and he said just beacuse he wanted to. His sister said that he doesnt talk to ppl he doesnt like so I guess I feel kinda special because he wanted to talk to me. His mom and grandma also think im really pretty...Idk if hes shy....Sometimes it seems af if he is not showi...
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Eight months now.
Posted Sunday April 5 2009, 10:40 pm
I've known this boy for a couple years now & I started developing feelings for September of 2008. I thought it was just going to be another one of those little crushes.
It's been eight months now and I still can't get over him. When I liked this boy, he told me he liked me too, a whole lot. We never got into a relationship because we lived too far away to be able to see each other as much as we'd like to. In the middle of October, he told me he also developed feelings for another girl at his school and of course I was crushed for I was even more in love with this kid by then.
They went out until the end of December-ish & he recently told me that he does not like that girl anymore.
My problem is that I can't get ...
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