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No BF??? HELP!!?!?! O_O
17, guy, no gf for 4 years
Ok this is an unsual one but the girl i once liked.. her BF just cheated on her about 5 days ago i finnaly got over her after realising shes kinda annoying and not really my type (I started liking her randomly for no reason and i didnt know her, then i got to know her and regretted it a bit) anyways just in case i start liking her again (which will probably happen kus im a lonley bastard) how do i stop those feelings? i dont know her enough anyways and our "friendsip" hasnt really happend even though i tried thankas for ya answers
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you shouldnt want to stop your feelings for some if they do come back (which will probly not happen because your not attracted to her) but if you really want to aviod that happing avoid her because if you avoid her you avoid the situation.
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tatianna
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Hello,well in my opinion I doubt if you actually have real feelings for her especially since you clearly stated that she is not your type and kind of annoying. Everyone has thier faults but when it comes to someone not being your type completley then those feelings arent true.I beleive those feelings you are having are feelings of lonliness and this makes you think that you have feelings for her. She is probably the closest girl for you to even thunk about having feelings for since you havent met anyone new.I think you should try to change your your irrational thinking..by you calling yourself a "lonley bastard" it puts you down in a way and is self defeating thinking..this can hinder you from meeting that special girl.I think once you try to change your thinking to a more positive outlook things will start looking up for you.However,I totally understand yoir feelings it can be really frustrating not having anyone for a long time but remeber your time will come.Im sure you are a speacial guy with tons to offer..you just have to wait it out to find that one for you so think positive and keep busy!!I hope this helped and I wish you the best
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:):)
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ignore her.
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