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3 guys.
Okay here is the thing my ex and I broke up over a month ago. I had this guy friend Tony who invited me over to watch a movie and talk about things. He kissed me a cried and so he stopped. we ended up having sex some point that night. well it ended up he just wanted sex so i quit talking to him all together.
David.. I meet him talking to him online. we hung out a few times. he keep grabbing my face because i keep pulling away to kiss me and he kissed me for like 30 minutes well we ended up having sex. he really likes me a guess but im not attracted to him and i get annoyed easy with him
Dustin.. My best friends brother and my ex's cousin. my ex doesnt talk to any of them. We all drank at his sisters house one time but i was dating my ex at the time. I seen him and his sisters baby shower for a minute on saturday. and we talked for just a minute. I texted him that he and i should go drink sometime but he didnt get it because he doesnt have service where he lives. I called him yesterday (sunday). i went out to his house we went dirt roading and ended up having sex but he didnt force me i told him i wanted to. and he didnt even kiss me until i was positive. we talked for hours before that. im attracted to him just hearing his voice gives me butterflies. he asked me if i was wanting to date someone and i said i wasnt sure. which i am sure. he had running around to do in town today and asked if i wanted to come and of course i said yes i wanted to see him.
i dont want to be judged on what i did with having sex. im just looking for advice. i dont know if im pregnant or not. i doubt it. i havent got my period but i dont know what day i started last month.. thank you for taking the time to read.
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noone should judge you because they dont know exactly what your going through. and the sex thing well if you think its a mistake then thats your buisness. people make mistakes all the time. and if you truely like this guy then maybe you should talk to him about it. say something like im not try to be clingy or anything but i like you. let him know how your feel so he knows. and he sounds like hes sweet. as long as he makes you happy do what you please. just make sure your sure about your opinion. and the pregnant thing, well if you used a condom and if your on birth control then the chances are low. and questions or need anyother advice just let me know.
-Tamera.
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Well, truthfully, none of these guys sound all that great.., and because I am sure you are a beautiful and wonderful girl I think you need to find a good guy.
I agree with the previous advice. I think you definitely need to take things slower in the future. Sex should be saved for marriage in my belief, but that is my religion and I am not trying to force my views on you at all but I think you should at least be sure you love someone before you get involved physically like that. Whether you know it or not, sex stirs up some complicated stuff in your emotions which is probably why you feel so confused right now.
Also, if you didn't use protection, yoy might want to consider taking a pregnency test...
I am not trying to judge, or speculate, I only want to give you my thoughts, and wish you good luck.
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Well, if you didn't use protection, why in the world would you think your NOT pregnant?
But again, like the girl below me, I'm not quite sure what advice your seeking. You didn't ask a question.
Take a pregnancy test though.
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well, i can't really find a question in this! could you please post it in "additional information" and add it so we all know what advice your looking for ? :].
Anyways,if your asking if you could be pregnant,its possible if you didn't use protection,always is. Maybe take a pregnancy test? if its been awhile since you had sex,and you haven't got your period yet, then i'd deffinatly get one or go to the doctors.
If your asking which guy to choose? I would deffinatly say Dustin, he seems the nicest. I would get to know him more though, because everyone puts on there best faces when you first meet them. If you've known eachother for awhile i don't see the problem in going out =]. for future reference though, i'd slow things down! Sex should be a big part of a relationship, a connection between two people who love eachother.I'm not saying you have to slow things down,but it'll cirtainly separate the players and the people who really care about you. i just wouldn't want you to get hurt or played from jerks like Tony who try to manipulate girls. it sounds like your really falling for Dustin, and as long as he doesn't just want sex then why not? go for it ! good luck and hope i helped!
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