Hey everyone, im 15/f. and i have a boyfriend that lives across the country, and it kills me that i never see him. But we talk everyday, and msn and text, call, email. Everything. I trust him with all my heart, and i belive that he would NEVER cheat on me. Its just that i never see him, and it kills me. So i dont know what to do. Also, i LOVE my boyfriend with all my heart. But i have had a crush on someone at my school, and they like me. Should i stay with the one i love, and never see? Or be with someone i only like, and see everyday.?
Thank sin advance.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Sami143 answered Tuesday April 7 2009, 8:19 pm: Ok well from experience even if he acts like he really cares about you and he says he loves you and you never think that he would cheat on you it will happen sooner or later. Im sorry to say but it will. Plus if you are already liking someone else he is probably feeling the same thing and obviously you guys never get to see each other so in my opinion its not worth it. So i would go with the guy you like and get to see everyday i know its hard but its whats best. Hope i helped =] [ Sami143's advice column | Ask Sami143 A Question ]
uberlou answered Tuesday April 7 2009, 3:00 am: As someone who's had his fair share of relationships, they're a hard thing to keep up if you can't see the person. Seeing as you're both still very young, the chances of trying to meet up and try to make it more and beat this distance are close to impossible at this rate.
You're young and I know the feeling of love is amazing, but this isn't the last time you'll make a connection like this. Take a chance first on what's around you. Relationships just aren't the same without that physical interaction. Stay friends and maybe in 3 or 4 years time if you're both single maybe you can give it another go and will be old enough to try to make an effort to see each other. If that isn't the case, trust me when I say both your hearts will heal and you won't regret your decision in time.
canada2011 answered Monday April 6 2009, 9:06 pm: Well from what I have learned you should go with the guy you like. Long distance relastionships aren't really for teens. Because when your a teen you need to be able to see that person hold their hand and kiss them. With him you can't do that and eventually would have either cheated or broke up. So sounds like you should go with the guy you can see everyday. Your going to have regerts no matter what you do. So just remember that when making your desicion. [ canada2011's advice column | Ask canada2011 A Question ]
asktatianna answered Monday April 6 2009, 8:03 pm: well this is kinda tough but i dont think it will work out in my opinoin peaple who live far apart grow far apart i know you love him and you guys text every day but you should be with someone who's close but that dosent mean that you cant still talk to him as friends and you could give the other guy a chance and hey if it dosent work out then you could go back to the person who lives far away or go on to someone else but most inportanly follow your heart and i am always avalibe
xojessii answered Monday April 6 2009, 3:25 pm: If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, its yours forever. If it dosent, then it was never meant to be. -Anonymous
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