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Boyfriend problems
Am I overreacting? I am 27 years old and my boyfriend is 31 and we are both divorced and we both have 2 children each when I met him he seemed like a family person but know he indicates he's not. all he wants to do is go to clubs, be with his friend, I feel like why are you even with me he has custody of his child that is 5 years old, we've been together for 2 years and a half but. I'm the type wants to have a family and settle and hes not but yet he wants his child to have a home with a really family. His ex wife is another person that only believes in clubbing and she was another man and that is why she abandoned her child and she is another one of my problem she has a boyfriend but still wants to get back with my boyfriend and writes notes to him saying I love you plus calls him all the time and i believe that my boyfriend feels bad for her.I get angry and im always in a bad mood and my boyfriend says im overreacting. i feel that he doesnt see evrything ive gone through with him plus when he talks with his ex wife he always tries to talk to her in private when before he used to talk in front of me, plus if it was for him my house would be full of guys from ages 20 to 28 in my house. But he tells me he loves me...what should i think.
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Oi Christ.
Its time to walk.
If you keep on with him, you will end up a single mom to 4 children while he goes out and has fun. His children are obviously not a priority, and his attitude towards kids not matching yours is a huge insurmountable obstacle.
You are being used for sex and babysitting by a juvenile idiot, and he does it because all the effort he has to put in is to tell you he loves you.
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This guy will be nothing but trouble for you and you know it. Obviously, he's not fit to be a parent. At 31, he needs to be taking life a lot more seriously. He's not 21 anymore. You have your head on more straight and have more mature priorities. You don't want your children to grow up around a man so irresponsible. You're better off without him and finding someone better with the same outlook on life as you because you're not going to be able to change this guy in his ways.
Best of luck!
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it sounds like you are better off with out him.
i think he is partially using you as a babysitter.
i think if you left him it would be a huge stress relief on your life.
hope i helped :)
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