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boys, why -_-
16/f
serious question and im looking for guys answers mostly. why cant you just like one girl? why do most of you have to been hooking up with alot of girls? i dont understand why one isnt good enough =( please help me understand.
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I am not a male, but I hope you don't mind if I offer you my theories. I'm pretty sure this will change as you get older. A lot of young boys are like this because they are still learning about themselves, they don't know what they like, and they don't want to get in a serious relationship. They want to feel good about themselves, and for many boys and men alike, this means they need to feel like many women want them. What better way to prove this to themselves than to be with as many women as they can? Also, a lot of them want experience so they can feel like they have more to offer. These are just my theories based on observation.
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Im a guy (17) i dunno i never got that either, iv never done it. although i do get confused once every while to who i actually like but then soon after i just think its lust that took over me. i dont think the guys that have loads of girls on the go reallllly care about them as much as you think they do :/ they just thinking with thier nuts and not with thier head. its natural though, the hormones kick in like a bitch around 15. iv only really started gettin increasingly more horny in the past couple of months. but i try like hell to not let that cloud my judgement of a person, i'd still rather get to know some one than just say yeah shes hot i love her. dont be too mad at us :) we cant help it (some of the time) other possiblities could be that they'r insecure of thier freindship status so they try and make it seem as if they like the girl more than a friend to try and get attention.
hopefully i helped a bit
M.
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I'm not a female, but maybe I can help?
Most guys (not all, but most) like & want what they cannot have. They think that if they hook up with just one girl, they will miss out on something else. So, they hook up with a ton of girls so that they have a variety or a spread of different girls.
It could also be that they're shallow, or that they don't think they deserve just one girl & that they should have every girl they see as if they were God's gift to Earth.
Honestly, not all guys are like this, but most are and it's a sad, sad thing. It's hard to find a nice guy. I think as long as you stay single & get to know a guy first, you'll see that there really are some nice guys out there. Don't jump into anything with a guy just because he's hot & seems into you. It'll end in disaster.
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I'm not a guy, but I thought I might try to help you out a little with this.
Not all guys are like that, but a lot are. It mainly has to do with their ages & maturity. Some guys just aren't ready to settle down with one girl, especially these days since the media & everything has made being a "player" look so good. The best thing you can do is be cautious about starting a relationship. There may be a cute guy that catches your eye, but you need to watch him & make sure he's not one of those guys who bounces from girl to girl, or has a reputation as a player. But don't give up on a relationship, though. You will find a good guy that is ready for a serious relationship with one girl, it just may take some time.
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