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do i still possibly have a chance?
On friday I told my guy friend from school that I liked him (i was really scared to do it so i texted him during class while he sat right behind me, stupid i know but that's what happened). He didn't respond and he didn't say anything to me the next 2 periods either (since we have them together). I'm not going to go into detail, but certain things he did made it obivious that this freaked him out, and he really didn't know what to say. But he doesn't really show his emotions on the outside, so anybody else would've had no idea that he felt this way or that anything happened in the first place, so he's pretty hard to read. He didn't say anything to me over the weekend, and we didn't talk yesterday. I'm well aware that it wasn't exactly the smartest move and I came on way to strong but I've dealt with that and that's not what I'll be asking about. Today (tuesday) I decided I would say hi and then just apologize for freaking him out. I did, & even though I could tell it was sort of hard for him to make eye contact he responded nicely. I asked him if he hated me (not in a pathetic way, kindof a joking but serious way, I'm just paranoid and that's just something i would say and he knew that haha) and he said no i don't, you just kindof scared the crap ot of me. And I was like I'm sorry again. I'm glad that had went well because all in all i didn't want to ruin our friendship, all though it was still a little awkward and we still weren't talking as much as usual, which is understandable. I know I shouldn't get my hopes up too high, or at all for that matter, but is there still a possibility he might like me at some point after finding this out? I mean I know him and it's not everyday that a girl blurts out that she likes him so I know he really wasn't sure how to react to the situation or know what to think of it. I'm not going to push it any further because I don't want to ruin our friendship, and the upcoming break from school should let the awkwardness blow over. If anything were to happen between us I'd leave it up to him. I feel like if he did like me or were to decide he did he would've said so by now. But it's only been four days, is it possible he may like me or may ever decide he does? sorry this was long and overly descriptive.
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Well i think you are very brave to do that some people dont even have to do what you did but you should have confidence about this maby you just caught him off guard a little but you cant give up some boys like confident girls but just ask him even if it will be kinda scary
but at least yore have an answer just dont give up hope and remeber i am always avalible
GoodLuck
Tatianna:))
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Well like you said he is shy. He may have issues about telling you how he feels. Especially since you guys are friends. That makes it twice as hard. So it may be a mistake on your part to leave it up to him. I mean I don't think he will get mad at you if you ask him about yourself. He's had plenty of time to respond to you. I'm not sure if he likes you it's hard to tell since I can't see him but there is going to to be a chance. But your just going to have to ask him how he feels about you. Because like you said hes shy. Secondly he is a guy and well being a guy in all he doesn't express his emotions very well. He may also not now how to tell you.
Good Luck!
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