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this guyyy
i already asked a question about this but its making me go crazy.
thankyou to the people who gave me advice
and i talked to my mom on the way to the store
and she blew up on me. again.
im 16 years old. and its normal to have a boyfriend/friends who are guys.
and hse wont except that.
my boyfriend (who i told her is just my friend, but she told me she thinks hes more than just a friend) she wont let me drive to his house this weekend
she told me next time i hangout with him, she wants to meet him. so i was being nice and i said that i could go pick him up (he lives abut 25 minutes away) and then i would bring him to my house to meet my parents. and she started yelling at me and stuff. and she wont let me do that. so im like ok whatever then i guess you will never meet him.
hes not the richest person in the world and i respect that, so he doesnt have a car and his parents wont let him take there car and shes like why cant he pick you up and i told her that and she thinks im making excuses and im not.
i honestly dont know why she is getting so mad.
shes lucky i even told her about him. shouldnt she be happy about that?
but no shes not. she has to be a total you know what about it.
and she keeps bringing up the fact that he goes to a school for bad kids. im happy with him. im the happiest ive ever been. and i dont understand why she cant just accept that and be happy for me.
(me and my parents dont talk about love life and stuff like that. so this is like the first situation ive been in like this with them)
what should i do? im thikning aobut just telling her im going to the mall and out to dinner with my friend but then id just go to his house. do you think i can get away with that?
sorry this is so long. but thanks for the advice!
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It may seem hard to believe, but your mom has your best interest in mind. You should be thankful that your mother cares enough to get upset when she thinks you might be in danger. She has a good reason to be worried... not that he's poor or goes to that certain school, but that she knows nothing about him and for all she knows he could hurt you in some way. It's a sad fact, but there are guys out there who will, so you have to be careful. For this reason, I would advise you NOT to lie to her and go anyway. Have you suggested to her that she ride with you to pick him up?
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well its your life and you should be allowed to make some desicions.if you think this is the only way you can see him than i would say go for it but if you get in trouble with your parents tell them that youre not them and ther not you dont make all of your disicions and you like him and thats all thats all that matters if you could pass his flaws why cant they and remember i am always availible
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You're young, and we'll teenagers are ment to brake the rules. Perhaps you could do a bit better. Maybe you could say you're going to meet him at the Mall. His parents are going to drop him off maybe, and you could just go pick him up. Then take him home to meet mommie and daddie. That way in the end your mother can meet him, and hopefully he'll leave a good impression on your parents.
Because it's not always the right thing to give your parents a complete lie. It's better to be a half lie, don't you agree?
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