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Calling a girl for the first time
So there's this girl I like. Problem is I move an hour away in a couple months :(. Anyway, I don't have a lot of relationship experience. I see this girl in person a couple times a week (our group of friends hang out) and recently we've been texting more often and it's always a little flirty. Anyway, I would totally love it if she called me, so I'm thinking she might like it just as much if I called her. First question, if there was a guy you liked or were just getting to know, would you like it if they called you? Second, what should I talk about? Third, should I keep it short or what? Finally, would it be goofy to get a call from a guy and not have them ask you out or anything (I want to, just not sure its the best time yet)?
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I think you should call her. If she likes you she'll be happy to hear from you, even if you can't think of anything to say.
Don't worry about what you're going to say or whether or not you're going to ask her out. Just call... And if she asks why you called... You could just say, 'I thought of you and was wondering what you're doing.' Or, 'Just wanted to see how you're day is going.' A good way to start a conversation is just to ask her questions. Try to think of open-ended questions though... Not questions that could be answered either 'yes' or 'no.' Your goal is to get the ball rolling by getting her to talk first. (Preferably talking a lot, especially if you're shy or nervous.)
As for call length... Determine by gauging the conversation. If she has a lot to say, then keep it going for as long as possible. If she's short with her answers, or doesn't really seem to be trying to maintain the conversation... Make up an excuse to get off the phone.
If it goes well... You could ask her if she wants to meet you for coffee sometime in the near future. If you're feeling too nervous, just end the conversation with, 'Well, it was really nice talking to you,' and ask when you're feeling more comfortable.
Good luck with this one, dear! I'm sending positive thoughts your way :P
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Well some girls like goes who are confident, and others thinks it's cute when he's nervous. And i think it's sexy when he is very confident and knows what to say and etc...
I disagree with the girl calling the guy because girls don't like that, she'll call you if you call her.
1. Yes, of coures i would love it
2. Well, start with "hey" of coures, and then ask her "how was your day?" and "where did you go?", get the subjects going on, tease her abit in a flirty way but don't over do it, some girls get offended.
3.Well it depends, first keep it short, like if the call was getting uncomfortable just tell her you'll call her later, like "well i gtg, i'll call you later and maybe we'd hang out"
But if she was interested and kept asking you questions and if she sounded excited then keep it going until it ends
4.Well you don't have to ask her out right away, just mention that you'd guys will hang out but if she gave you any signs ask her out or just text it to her after the phone call
Good Luck =]=]
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well your first answer is i love when a boy calls me first (girls think its kinda thier job) you should definatly call her your 2nd answer is talk about some subjects thats you both now about like school and the teachers you dont like or you could ask her questions about her self(girls like that just dont make the questions too long try to change the subject after 5 or 7 questins)but keep the conversartion going and let her know stuff about you and let her know you wana hear what she has to say be engagded when she talks and really listen and next time you talk bring something up from the last conversation to let her know you was listening. No it would'nt be goofy because some people like slow relationships but its never hurt to try you should try.and remember i am alway availible:)
GoodLuck
Tatianna:))
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every girl is different depends how old you are and if her parents are ok with you two talkign on the phone. maybe you should ask her if shed like you to call her for a chat.i wouldnt mind if the guy called me but id give it around aweek before calling just so she knows you and its not so awkward on the phone.Second thing is dont be shy and talk about anything you like ask her the questions like how she is and hows the family and what she did today and what things shes into then start asking her questions about what her most embarasing moment just things that will end up with a laugh dont over do it so remeber dont talk to much..talk but not talk the whole time girls like to get in as much as they can:Pyou be the listner and the replier:P ...it wouldnt be goofy its always up to you..your ganna be awesome dont worry just be yourself and dont panic!
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