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What to let him walk or not?
Posted Sunday May 31 2009, 11:36 pm
Am 19 female and his a year older
So like there is this 1 guy that we call apples & I have know him for 7 years & a week ago he call one of our friends phone and was like hey have her give me a call back & so I did and he was like want to go for a walk tonight when you get back. & before I went me and her had a talk about him and am so use to the type of guy that wants his girlfriend to look a current way and he don’t care how she gets like that as long as she does and she was like he don’t care about how you look and I think he would be good for you so you could get your life on track. So I did go on a walk but I had a friend go with me. I think it made him a little mad but I didn’t know what to about it then ...
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i just want to feel valued.
Posted Sunday May 31 2009, 10:33 pm
okay, im 16/f and ive never had a serious relationship. everyguy ive ever liked has 1. been older than me, and 2. have liked me for a little then just left me. all my friends say to just be patient because everyguy ive ever had a thing with are jerks. i believe them. but not everyone of them are jerks. i want to feel wanted and valued and it doesnt help that all four of my bestfriends have serious boyfriends. they talk about cute things they do and i just want to cry. ive never had that feeling to where i want to be with someone so badly because no guy had ever tried to stick around with me for so long.
so i guess i dont have a specific question, just that i need some advice :/.
thank you.
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What's his problem!?!
Posted Sunday May 31 2009, 9:20 pm
15/f
My soon to be boyfriend and I NEVER talk. All we've ever done is text, IM, and say hi every once and a while when bumpping into each other at school. Well, I've heard from him and many others that he likes me. He's really outgoing and an awesome guy. But whenever I call him or do anything in contact with him, he acts like he doesn't want to talk to me and gives me one word answers and seems completely disinterested. We've kissed a couple of times (literally one second pecks) and every time afterwards when I look at his face he looks disgusted. I really REALLY like this guy and know for a fact that he's crazy about me. And that's why I'm confused as to why, if he likes me so much, acts like I'm an annoyance or just avoids...
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my supposed best friend and my boyfriend.
Posted Sunday May 31 2009, 7:43 pm
SO i suspected there was something going on with my supposed best friend and my boy friend. and i just found out there realy was. she expected me to be completely fine with her getting with him. how could she think that? he even thought i would just let them go off and be the perfect little couple. we all got into a fight. i guess im friends with the girl again but. the boy. i cant deal with. i dont know what to do. hes friends with all my friends and i know ill have to see him. my supposed best friend said she was just doing it to make me want him more and take another step in the relationship? are you serious. she told me she was in love with him. so she said she backed off. which i doubt she really did. now things with me and him are even worse. please help me. i dont know what to do..
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first boyfriends
Posted Sunday May 31 2009, 7:31 pm
14/f
Ok, so around next week this guy who i know and like is going to ask me out. We've been crushing on each other since spring break. he's not allowed to date untill he's in highschool, but i know for a fact that he used to screw around with other girls before we met each other. So pretty soon we're going to start dating and he'll be my first boyfriend and i'm really nervous. Just a little while ago i learned that he's fingered a girl and gotten hand and blow jobs before. I'm worried that since he'd be my first boyfriend that i won't be able to...well, that he'd expect me to do things more experinced girls he knows do. I really like him but am afraid that he as soon as we get together he'll be all disappointed that i'm not ...
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getting him alone.
Posted Sunday May 31 2009, 7:30 pm
so there is this guy..and he's a few years older than i am. me and him like each other..and we wanna spend time alone..but our parents wouldnt be happy with it cause of the age difference. we dont really even want to do anything bad..just hand out and stuff..so what are some way's that me and him could get alone or something?
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how do i go further
Posted Sunday May 31 2009, 7:12 pm
ok well im going out with this girl who i was good friends with before hand...because we went out before then broke up then became really good friends then decided to go out again
but im really confused because im not sure how to go further than kissing with her or what she expects from me. because shes generally the type who likes to go further pretty quickly. shes nineteen by the way.but i dont know how or if she will find it weird because we are friends. or how to break that awkwardness. how do i know if she wants to? when we make out its pretty intense and stuff and she usually puts her leg right up against my crotch but i really dont know. any sugestions? or how i could tell if she even wanted to? because i wouldn want t...
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attractive or just plain weird?
Posted Sunday May 31 2009, 2:54 pm
14/f
I know this may seem like a strange question but I was just wondering is being 4'9'' with a 34c was either attractive or just awkward looking. I suppose my main question is, do you think that a girl with my sizes is unattractive? I'm not fat. I'm only like 100 pounds and have a 23.5 inch waist. I've never had a boyfriend and guys never really seem to be that interested in me. All of my friends have boyfriends. They all look so happy and...i don't know. I kind of want that too someday. I'm going to boarding school after the summer ends and would rather not enter a new school with crap self esteem. So basically, my question is if (in general) my physical looks are...um....strange? Because just a little while ago I overhear...
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Is this the right thing to do with him?
Posted Sunday May 31 2009, 1:08 pm
Me: 13/F. Him: 14/m.
Okay well here's the background info: He has always gone to my school so I've known him practically my whole life, but I only started falling for him last year. I REALLY fell for him. It was last summer. We began talking all of the time and hanging out a lot too because our groups are pretty tight. We became really close, and then school started. I was certain that once school started we would drift apart. Wrong. We only spent more time together and grew closer. We both knew we liked eachother but decided we wouldn't date bcuz we didn't think we were mature enough to handle a relationship. But we still had feelings for eachother. I would get jelous like a girlfriend even though I wasn't one. And he would ...
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HE'S MOVING HALF WAY ACROSS THE UNIVERSE......
Posted Sunday May 31 2009, 12:14 pm
He's moving!
the boy i like he, he's leaving and i'll see him again in time...
but i like him so much... and he used to like me before i screwed it up i don't know if he does anymore... he used to like me but i got scared and stopped talking to him and he later on, he went for another girl with whom he is still dating... but i like him so much, i might even... i might even love him... but he's moving from Virginia to California... what should i do? should i tell him how i feel? What can i do to make him want to stay? he has a choice here or California.. and he's choosing Cali ... what can i say to make him want to stay? please help me... please i'm so confused... i don't know what to do... just help, please. =[
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Girlfriend
Posted Sunday May 31 2009, 6:07 am
I'm 13(m) and most of my friends have a girlfriend and I don't, so they usually ditch me because I don't have a girlfriend. Also without a girl I feel lonesome. So how can I get a girlfriend?
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Something is horribly wrong with me
Posted Sunday May 31 2009, 5:39 am
Male, mid 20's.
I'm not going to bore with details. Over half a decade ago, I met my first love, who after barely a year, tore my heart out and broke my confidence in myself. I attempted to repair the bond to at least be friends, with horrible results.
I thought I was past it all, but recent I ended up seeing her again, and it reopened the old wounds. More than half a decade since it happened, and I'm still hurt when I am either reminded of the past, or placed in a situation where I re-encounter her.
I'm starting to worry that I'm not well in the mind. I mean, I should be over it. And yet, this scar on my heart keeps getting ripped open at the slightest chance involving anything that reminds me of the past. Why can't I stop feeling hurt by this?
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he likes me?
Posted Sunday May 31 2009, 4:13 am
hello, i'm 19/f and the guy is 18/m. me and this guy have been friends for a while but we live in different states now because i moved. he msgs me on msn a lot. lately, i've been wondering if he likes me or if i'm just assuming things. he's always msging me, telling me about his problems, asking for advice, asking me if i think he's cute. the thing is, he has a gf and lately hes been saying that he's not excited to see her and this and that. i'm just wondering, are these signs or does he see me as just a good friend?
ps: he likes to sometimes say "i love you, geez but then he'll be like, you're like a sister from another mother", but for some reason it sounds weird to me.
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Leave or Be Patient?
Posted Sunday May 31 2009, 3:38 am
Hello, I am a sixteen year old girl who has only been in one relationship so far and its the one I'm in.
First of all, I'd like to explain that I am with a guy that had broken up with me before and then came back and I took him back for certain reasons. Now we're trying it out again and at first it seemed right, but now he just does not seem understanding about a lot of things. The main things he does not understand are that I can't see him every single day because I am serious about school and he says that its fine, yet he still complains. He acts very clingy and I can't deal with that anymore. He has lied to me before, which in the end just makes me trust him less, which doesnt seem right for relationships. We fight a lot, but then...
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Is it normal
Posted Sunday May 31 2009, 2:22 am
Ok so my girlfriend and i talk on the phone forever and we willbe talking and she will randomly role over and kiss the air thinking im thr so i ask is this normal for people who are in love to do this? Have u ever done it ?
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I'm dating guys a lot older than me...
Posted Sunday May 31 2009, 2:09 am
Okay, so I'm thirteen now.
Turned thirteen in April.
[Imma girl]
Before that [Birthday] I had been dating a couple of sixteen year old boys.
And my current boyfriend is sixteen.
Well, I was recently out with all of our friends, smoking and having fun.
And a friend of mine who was my age started hitting on me, and I laughed at him.
A boy five years older than me [18] hitted on me and later that night I was in his car doing bad things.
Yes, I am concerned that I cheated on my boyfriend, but not really the point of my question.
My real question would be,
If there was a reason [Meducal Condition maybe?]that I'm attracted to older guys ...
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boyfriend shy in sex?
Posted Sunday May 31 2009, 2:03 am
so, my boyfriend lost his virginity to me the first time a couple of days ago... the thing is, i noticed that his attitude towards sex is a bit weird.. or awkward, however you want to say it. like, i know it's his first time and everything, but he's feeling comfortable around me. but when it comes to sex, he wanted to lose his virginity to me and everything... but it's hard for me to explain. for example, if he wanted to do something with me, like a new position... he wouldn't say anything. or i just tell him to get up for one second, he gets up, takes off the condom, and throws it away. he said he wanted to finish it but it was "okay", but i let him get another one and everything... but why get up and throw it away if i told him ...
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losing interest?
Posted Sunday May 31 2009, 1:57 am
so lately, i've been questioning my relationship with my boyfriend. like, thinking if we should break up or something.. i don't know. it's not that i don't like him, i do and all... but it feels like i don't like him as much as i did before for some reason. like, 3 days ago, we had sex, for the first time. but then, afterwards, i felt closer to him. but then.... i don't know, it's just a feeling how it's not really a big deal, but kind of lost feelings in a way? if you know what i mean...
advice please!
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She's just a friend, but...
Posted Sunday May 31 2009, 1:30 am
There's this girl... I met her at a party a long time ago and we instantly clicked (I never thought that could happen before then!). I mean instantly! Like within an hour she was really flirting with me, and i was really starting to like her back.
However, due to some bad judgment and choices, I waited to long to tell her I liked her (and officially hear she liked me back) and nothing happened. About a week or two later, she messaged me on myspace (due to some provocation) and we addressed it. I told her how i felt. She said she was "kinda" unavailable. That was a Wednesday. Come Friday, she was fully unavailable with her new bf. And get this, I still never fully got to know if she liked me...
well......
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Please tell me what's going on...
Posted Sunday May 31 2009, 1:17 am
I am a single mother of seventeen year old daughter.. I waited to date for all those years because I did not want confusion in raising my daughter. So now I am dating online.. Just started..
I wanted a Godly man.. so this guy I met online was very Handsome and educated.. Believes in God, goes to church...
He talks to me over the phone sees my profile says I made impression on his heart and mind..
I thought he is a good man, Hand some man..
He is divorced twice and has two kids from two different women..
We meet other day..loved our date.. he was saying he has fallen for me.. He would not move his eyes from mine.. He gave me so many compliments.. I was like are you for real.. we kissed for two hrs.. Hug...
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