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Please tell me what's going on...
I am a single mother of seventeen year old daughter.. I waited to date for all those years because I did not want confusion in raising my daughter. So now I am dating online.. Just started..
I wanted a Godly man.. so this guy I met online was very Handsome and educated.. Believes in God, goes to church...
He talks to me over the phone sees my profile says I made impression on his heart and mind..
I thought he is a good man, Hand some man..
He is divorced twice and has two kids from two different women..
We meet other day..loved our date.. he was saying he has fallen for me.. He would not move his eyes from mine.. He gave me so many compliments.. I was like are you for real.. we kissed for two hrs.. Hugged for hrs.. Date lasted for six hrs.. he made plans for next week.. I was like okay.. Now next day after my date with him.. I went to san fransico.. I was too tired to see him I did not see him.. he said it is fine then.. he stopped calling, texting.. He said on other text that he is not over his EX so cannot see me ...
By the way he had prayed putting hands on to fall for him... What happened????
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It sounds like he got cold feet.
The same way a person might do before a wedding. He might have felt that things were moving too quickly for him. Since your first date consisted of hours worth of hugging and kissing, he could be overwhelmed.
But, it could also be exactly what he said. Maybe he was talking to you and really feeling like he was over his ex. Then, after your date, she could have called him and he may have realized that he truly does still have feelings for her.
Regardless, this is a jerk thing to do and it's completely reasonable for you to ask him what changed his feelings so quickly. He was probably just getting ahead of himself with the excitement of a new relationship without really thinking of how he felt about past relationships.
I'm sure this is very hurtful for you since you did wait so long to date. But look on the bright side, wouldn't you rather know now that a year down the road? It would be a lot worse if you were dating for a while, then you found out he was cheating on you with his ex or something. This was the first guy you met, and though it's hard, you're going to have to get yourself back out there. I would do it as soon as you can. Don't let yourself wallow in it. It will just take you longer to move on and date other people if you let this really get to you for a prolonged period of time. I'm sure you'll find a great guy that is 100% ready for a relationship with you.
Good luck,
Darby(:
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no one knows except him...you should try talking to him, asking whats going on. if hes not over his ex, then hes not over his ex.
this is why online dating is impossible. anyone can say they are a man of God online, and really arent in real life. try finding someone at your church or where you work. that way, you'll know the person and wouldnt be dating a phoney.
i hope it all works out :)
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