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What to let him walk or not?


Question Posted Sunday May 31 2009, 11:36 pm

Am 19 female and his a year older
So like there is this 1 guy that we call apples & I have know him for 7 years & a week ago he call one of our friends phone and was like hey have her give me a call back & so I did and he was like want to go for a walk tonight when you get back. & before I went me and her had a talk about him and am so use to the type of guy that wants his girlfriend to look a current way and he don’t care how she gets like that as long as she does and she was like he don’t care about how you look and I think he would be good for you so you could get your life on track. So I did go on a walk but I had a friend go with me. I think it made him a little mad but I didn’t know what to about it then the next day I went to go and say good-bye to him. And we were in his room when he was packing and he was just looking at me and then he said that I have waiting for this since eight grade. & it scares me cause when he looks at me he is like looking at me like through me if that makes any sense it like he is looking at me for me and not what I can give him. So we spent sometime together and what I hate is that I can see me and him together and he was always like what’s wrong and every time I say nothing he knows sometime is buggin me he can read me like a book and I always push people away. He moved to a different state and now his coming back to get his stuff and I won’t see him. A friend of ours always says that he don’t stay away for long. I just don’t know if I should have told him on how he makes me feel. Or if I did the right things by letting him walk away.

Am just so confused cause I just got done with a fling well it was more he just used me for sex this other guy, and know apples likes me for me and every time am around him I get nerves and I just don’t know wht 2 do about any of it. Next time should I talk to him about how I feel bout him or just let it go & pretend that the make-out we did was nothin and let him bring it up.


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sweeethoney answered Monday June 1 2009, 12:18 am:
if you really like this guy, you should tell him because when he moves, youll regret that you didnt say anythin. obviously he likes you because he wants to talk to you alone and said that thing about '8th grade', and he looks at you a certain way. he deserves to know and you deserve him.
and even if he doesnt accept it, then hes moving anyways. so you really have nothin to lose.
get it out of your system, off your back, and even if he rejects it, then just move on and youll feel better because you have closure. you wont have to be wondering about him.

if you need anymore advice hollla :)
x sweeethoney

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