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he likes me?
hello, i'm 19/f and the guy is 18/m. me and this guy have been friends for a while but we live in different states now because i moved. he msgs me on msn a lot. lately, i've been wondering if he likes me or if i'm just assuming things. he's always msging me, telling me about his problems, asking for advice, asking me if i think he's cute. the thing is, he has a gf and lately hes been saying that he's not excited to see her and this and that. i'm just wondering, are these signs or does he see me as just a good friend?
ps: he likes to sometimes say "i love you, geez but then he'll be like, you're like a sister from another mother", but for some reason it sounds weird to me.
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Guys are kind of funny... Girls and guys think so differently it's hard to tell, and everyone is their own individual person it's difficult to pin point someone you don't know.
From what it seems like to me, from things I myself have gone through with guys, he just seems like he enjoys venting to you. From my end of it, again, (I am an outsider only reading what you wrote so I could be way off) it sounds like he just feels he can trust you, to tell you these things. I've had tons of guy friends that did the exact same thing, and it's not that they liked me or that they were trying to get with me, they just felt like they could tell me things that they couldn't talk to their girlfriend about because it was sometimes about her and they couldn't tell their guys friends about because they wanted a girls perspective or they would give him crap for sounding so "girly". Guys need to vent too, and as much as the sterotype says women PMS, complain, hold grudges, ect... Guys CAN be even worse. If he says he sees you as a sister he problem does mean, he sees you like a sister...
If he is annoying you just try to avoid the convos a little more, it's on the internet so it should be easier than if you lived near him, make them short a sweet. If you may have feelings for him, try to talk to him about it and tell him your a little unsure of his intentions because of the talks you both have. IF neither of those is correct then just enjoy being a friend he feels he can count on.
Which ever it is, I hope I could help and am not too far off on this, and either way things go, good luck! =)
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