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What's his problem!?!
15/f
My soon to be boyfriend and I NEVER talk. All we've ever done is text, IM, and say hi every once and a while when bumpping into each other at school. Well, I've heard from him and many others that he likes me. He's really outgoing and an awesome guy. But whenever I call him or do anything in contact with him, he acts like he doesn't want to talk to me and gives me one word answers and seems completely disinterested. We've kissed a couple of times (literally one second pecks) and every time afterwards when I look at his face he looks disgusted. I really REALLY like this guy and know for a fact that he's crazy about me. And that's why I'm confused as to why, if he likes me so much, acts like I'm an annoyance or just avoids me when we spend time together. I really like him and want to go out with him but, honestly, I see no point whatsoever in going out with him if he's going to continue acting this way. It irks me like crazy to talk to him now even though I'm crazy about him too. I'm unsure as to wether dating him would just be wasted time and am puzzled as to why he chooses to act like an angry five year old around me. Please, I really need some advice! :)
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guys at a young age act very shy around girls they like because they want to hide their feelins and not be vonerable. the best thing you can do is either leave it alone and move on, or ask him upfront about his feelins. ask him to hang out, that way when you do you can see what hes like alone with no pressure and outside of school. if it doesnt work out, then it doesnt work out. just see how he acts with you alone. and if he acts oddly, then ask him why! youll never find out by just observin.
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Since communication is important in every relationship, I wouldn't waste much more time on this one. It sounds like this guy is to immature for a real relationship at the moment.
What has he done to make you think he is crazy about you? Someone who can't bother to speak to you is NOT crazy about you.
See if you can get him to talk to you about all this. Be honest with him about how you feel. If you don't see change immediately, find yourself another guy.
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Guys have a tendency, especially at your age, where they act like that because they want to seem cool. They think if they act like how we would want them to, that it would make them seem as though they are not the "tough guy".
There's nothing really that you can do except talk to him and ask him why he seems disinterested around you, and let him know that you don't find that quality attractive.
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