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Q: 15/f

My soon to be boyfriend and I NEVER talk. All we've ever done is text, IM, and say hi every once and a while when bumpping into each other at school. Well, I've heard from him and many others that he likes me. He's really outgoing and an awesome guy. But whenever I call him or do anything in contact with him, he acts like he doesn't want to talk to me and gives me one word answers and seems completely disinterested. We've kissed a couple of times (literally one second pecks) and every time afterwards when I look at his face he looks disgusted. I really REALLY like this guy and know for a fact that he's crazy about me. And that's why I'm confused as to why, if he likes me so much, acts like I'm an annoyance or just avoids me when we spend time together. I really like him and want to go out with him but, honestly, I see no point whatsoever in going out with him if he's going to continue acting this way. It irks me like crazy to talk to him now even though I'm crazy about him too. I'm unsure as to wether dating him would just be wasted time and am puzzled as to why he chooses to act like an angry five year old around me. Please, I really need some advice! :)
Guys have a tendency, especially at your age, where they act like that because they want to seem cool. They think if they act like how we would want them to, that it would make them seem as though they are not the "tough guy".

There's nothing really that you can do except talk to him and ask him why he seems disinterested around you, and let him know that you don't find that quality attractive.



Q: I am 18 years old, and i have been on birth control for like a year & a half. I take the pills everyday and i try to take them around the same time everyday. but lately i have been bleeding even when i take the pills. Im like 3 weeks away from when im supposed to have my period. I am getting really bad cramps..i dont understand why this is happening
A little bit of bleeding is normal, however if it's happening often, it's best to go see your doctor, and he/she can get to the root of the problem and perhaps try you on a different pill.

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