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i have a very close friend who is sometimes physically abused by her mother. i, outside her nuclear family, am the only person who knows. her mother scratches at her skin and hits her, only on fridays so the marks will be gone by monday. she also yells at her far more than normal in front of me even and criticizes everything she does anywhere. my friend also is severly subservient as a consequence and apologizes for trivial things very frequently, among other things. i think these are signs of mental abuse, from being so traumatized. i would do something about it as soon as i found out, except that i think, and i know my friend thinks, it would cause more problems for her in the long run. we'll be off to college in one moe year. she also has a younger brother who undergoes the same. what should i do, if anything?

I was being abused and my mother attempted to even kill me once or twice, and I had a friend who convinced me to call the police and it was the best thing that happened to me. She saved my life.
If you really care about her and you KNOW she's being abused; call. the. police. She does not deserve to be abused at all. Even if she's going to college, that's one more year of being abused she doesn't deserve.
Her sibling is being abused, too, and that should be the final line. He's younger, and he'll be just as traumatized as her. Their mother even has a game plan of WHEN to abuse and scream at her children. My dear, that is a very, very, very sick woman.
You could possibly save your friends life and her brothers by calling the police.

Also, if she's suffering from not only physical, but also mental abuse, then people could help her get therapy to straighten her out.

Talk to her about these things before you do anything drastic, though.
Please think what I have said through.

Hope I helped and good luck

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My friend is twelve and she wants to have sex without a condum .She does not have her period and is a virgin.Can she still get pregnant?

First off, a twelve-year-old should NOT be having sex, but whatever.

If she's a virgin, then there is no way she can get pregnant. That's what sex was made for.
Sometimes, periods or late or they occasionally skip, which might be why you think she's pregnant. If she hasn't even started getting her periods yet, then don't worry.
But if she has, and she doesn't get her period soon, she should go to the doctor :]

Just wait and see what happens.

Hope I helped

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19/f. So I have this amazing fiance whom I love very much, and the possibility of being pregnant with his kid. We've been together for almost two years, and planning a wedding.

Well like a week ago, we brokeup because we got into a huge argument. He broke my heart badly and felt that I should move on. Well I put up an ad on Craigslist about me wanting a relationship. I ended up getting 5 valid responses from guys saying how cute I am and such. Well I got to know them all a little bit. Then suddenly my ex-fiance came around to apoligize and he treated me to the movies, and begged for me back. So I accepted happily.

Now the problem is, I have these 5 guys wanting to go out with me. I don't know how to tell them I am going back out with my fiance. Like they LIKE me. I still want to stay good friends with them, yet I already know it'll break their heart.

So as a note, don't tell me I shouldn't of went to Craigslist in the first place. I think I already know what I've done. I am asking is, how can I break the news to them?

And I am faithful!! I never cheated and never will.

Thanks

It's always bad to break someone's heart, you've been through it recently, I see.
You should explain to them as nicely as possible that you fiancee got back together and it was unexpected. Tell them that you do like them, and want to remain friends if they do, but if they don't then you understand. Sugar coat it and be a sweetheart.
To even consider letting them down easy and not do the usual thing and cut-and-run is very sweet.
If they no longer want to talk or be friends; that's they're loss. You seem like a very kind-hearted person and I know you and your fiancee will be very happy :]

Hope I helped

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Next year, my younger sister will be joining me at high school. I am female, sixteen, from a religious family, and in the middle of the American South. The problem with my sister joining me at school is that I am an out bisexual everywhere except my home. I have a darling girlfriend at present who, though she does not attend the same school as me, is a frequent topic of conversation amongst me and my friends. My main concern is that my family and public life will mix. My mother is very religious and, though she has walked in on me with a woman (it was awkward), she has chosen to ignore it and try to set me up with her friends' sons. My father is unaware of this. What would be the best way to prevent my family finding out about who I really am?

Though you should not be ashamed of who or what you are, if they're religious like you say, then they might not be as understanding as they should be.

If your sister is around, don't talk about your girlfriend. Warn your friends and people who know about you and her not to speak of her around your sister. Keep everything about her hidden while she's around.
Tell your family when you're ready or when you think it's right, or not at all for now.

Hope that helped :)

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