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makin out
Posted Tuesday July 7 2009, 5:20 pm
ok i am 13 nd this guy i lyke is 14. me n him want to make out. ive kissed b4 i hve neva made out!! ik its dumb bt i want to make out wit him sum1 tell me how to!!!
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Posted Tuesday July 7 2009, 5:04 pm
hi my name is nichole nd i hve a boyfriend problem ill try to mske this short.i am 13 he is 14 we hve only seen each other once. wen we were together he was tlkin bout our future he plnned out our future together.nd wen he said he loved me i thought he meant dat nd da future he planned out was gonna cum true.did he realy mean it cause i thought he meant dat.it was a long distance relationship. me nd gerardo datz his name hve been datin for 3mnths he kept breakin up nd he kept askin me out again nd i kept sayin yes. He broke my heart. nd now he has a new gf named martha. he tells me wat they do nd evrytig is he tryin to hurt me?Me nd my ex used to be friends.bt now we arnt. nd wen we were friends. evn tho he had a gf he said he still...
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how much should i talk to him
Posted Tuesday July 7 2009, 4:47 pm
So to start I told my guy friend who I liked that I liked him, long story, it was awkward, but we're still friends, and we've barely, barely talked about the whole thing. And though we are friend we don't talk as much as I wish because I never know what to say and he's not a big conversation starter. But this past Friday I actually worked up the nerve to bbm (blackberry message for those of you who don't know) him for no reason just to talk, which is a big step up for me because I always feel like I need to have a reason to talk to guys I like because I'm paranoid and don't always know what to say I don't want to feel like I'm bothering them. The good thing is the conversation was way better than I expected, it wasn't the awkward convcer...
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he doesnt txt me no more
Posted Tuesday July 7 2009, 4:29 pm
14/f & 14/m (he'll be 15 in aug.)
so im going to try to keep this short and sweet.
my boyfriend and i try to see each other weekly but when we cant we txt. But lately he hasn't been txtin very much, towards me only. When this first happened i was so scared we were going to break up again, thenn i saw him later on that day and he showed absolutley no signs of breaking up, only more to love. He was very sweet wen we were togeether, so i thought he would keep txtin: still nothing. So...why doesn't he want to txt with me anymore?
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i feel so low
Posted Tuesday July 7 2009, 11:27 am
i feel completely lost and hurt and i really dont know why i feel so bad. to start with im 16 yrs old. i really like this guy who is 17 lets call him alex. we have been friends for over 2months now and basically since day 1 we have been attracted to eachother. we have kissed etc and a few weeks ago he told me he really liked me. and i told him i really liked him too =]
any way the past few days he has been really moody with me. i have tried to speak to him about it but he either ignores me or says hes in a mood so doesnt want to talk.
his friends all say he likes me, and he just goes through phases where hes in a mood with people. i dont believe this though and i dont think he likes me. if you like someone you dont ignore them...
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Guy Troubles! Sorry,its long D:
Posted Tuesday July 7 2009, 2:11 am
Oye.I've had a lot of questions lately,so since its all on the same topic i might as well just ask them all at once,righto? Here it goes!
Well,to start this off-i like this kid-"R". I've known "R" for about 8 years. We grew up together because he lives right near my friend. This year, both of their familys went together for the fourth of july to a beach,and i tagged along. We all had a lot of fun and laughed 24/7. I ended up liking "R",by the end of the weekend. I'm not sure,of course,but i think he might like me,at least a little.(smiley texts,took my phone,told me he'd miss me,asked where i was tickilish;jokingly) And every time i get to this point, i completely loose everything. But I don't w...
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Player Or for Real?
Posted Tuesday July 7 2009, 12:57 am
I have this one friend, he comes off as a player, I guess you can say. He hits on pretty much any girl that comes his way.
But him and me have been good friends for a while. And I think I like him. Yeah. Not a good choice.
But I'm not sure if he likes me back.
He calls me pretty much everyday.
He wants to hang out whenever we can.
He calls me 'sexy'
But when he says 'I love you' I think he just means it, as if we're just friends.
"I'm just kidding, I love you" would be something he would say.
Any advice on what I should do next? Or where I stand?
Thanks =DD
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the absolute worst breakup ive had in a while.
Posted Monday July 6 2009, 11:30 pm
my boyfriend of 6 1/2 months broke it off today. i guess we're both the problem in the relationship somewhat, we've broken up a few times in the past. one thing wrong with me is im a very moody person. one day ill be totally fine. and then ill get depressed after awhile,..and then my boyfriend will annoy me and ill get really bitchy. he told me today he was sick of all my bullshit, and i knew he was referring to my on and off moodiness. i got pissed at him and the argument got way heated. we were screaming at eachother and i even kind of jumped on him? like i guess i was trying to hurt him or something, i dont really know what i was doing. and i made the mistake of doing that in front of his mom -.-'' so obviously, im the main point of this...
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Loves me, but doesn't want me.
Posted Monday July 6 2009, 10:25 pm
So I was in this relationship with this guy.
He was perfect, but we ended it.
We barely saw each other.
The day we broke up, he went to his friend's house,
because he was upset.
His friend, who is a girl, confessed her feelings for him, which continued with him asking her out.
They had sex that night, as well.
I don't believe in pre-marital sex,
yet, he does.
very, very much so.
Anyways, we got into another right because
he kept saying how amazing she was compared to me,
and blah blah blah.
So we stopped talking.
On my birthday, he texted me.
And we became friends, again.
We talk on the phone every night, since then.
Later ...
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Counseling
Posted Monday July 6 2009, 6:27 pm
My boyfriend (24m) is having some problems with depression. He's on medication for it, but medication alone isn't a solution. I urged him to seek out counseling, and he actually listened to me.
He had one session and told me that he was incredibly frustrated and angry and didn't want to do it anymore. I convinced him to try again.
I've tried to explain to him that counseling helps because it allows the individual (or couple, or family) to speak with an outside, objective person, someone who isn't involved in the situation. The objectivity helps because the therapist's opinions and suggestions are unbiased and (usually) knowledgeable, and focus on finding the best solution to help the individual with the problem at hand. The ...
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Things seem complicated...
Posted Monday July 6 2009, 12:00 pm
Hi guyz im meg. Im really confused about this guy i really like. His names is kris and ive known and been friends with him for about 3 months. Ive been attracted to him the day i met him but we never said how we felt about eachother until about 6/7 weeks ago. He told me he really likes me && his friends have told me he likes me. Yet 4 some reason im still questioning if he does or not.
Basically we kiss and cuddle when we are together. Sometimes i think yea he likes me and other times i think he doesnt (for example, when hes with his friends he will sometimes ignore me and focus on his friends) Im not the kind of person who wants attention all the time, i love him being with his friends. But sometimes he will be mood...
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torn between boys
Posted Monday July 6 2009, 12:35 am
ok. so i don't want to say that i'm boy crazy, but it's just that i always find wonderful things in every guy. and there are so many fish in the sea. but i kind of want a boyfriend. so what are some ways i can decide what kind of guy would be good?
-the weird, nice, funny artistic one
-the sweet romantic, but boring one
-the boy in the band,funny,nice,cute
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Emotional I love you
Posted Monday July 6 2009, 12:08 am
Is it weird if I get emotional when I (18/f) or my boyfriend (22/m) say I love you? I can say it without getting emotional most of the time, but sometimes if I really get to thinking about it, and what it means to me I sometimes cry. Not a huge blubbery cry but I definitely tear up for a couple minutes. Is this weird lol? Or is it just because I honestly mean it?
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First Rough Patch
Posted Sunday July 5 2009, 10:35 pm
Well it goes like this.
I have been dating a wonderful guy for about 5 months now, and I couldn't be happier. We met at college but are now long distance for the summer. I see him every couple or weeks or so. I am his first serious girlfriend- he has never told a girl I love you. He says he isn't even sure what it means.
A little over a week ago, he was in a cranky mood. I asked if it had anything to do with me, and he said he thought so and we talked for several hours. Basically, he said he wasn't sure of his feelings about me and had thoughts of breaking up with me occasionally. He said he felt suffocated because I wanted to talk so much, etc.
Prior to this conversation, I had gotten upset a co...
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Im lost
Posted Sunday July 5 2009, 5:48 pm
Me and my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up a couple months ago and i cant seem to function. I was so in love with him. About a month ago when we were in school together he would say he missed me too and all this stuff but then when school ended i didnt want to be the pathetic person so i stayed away from him. No calling and no texting. Well about 2 weeks ago he requested to be this guy i dated right after him's friend on facebook. I thought this was weird and it made me stop and think about him again. Then last week he started texting me to see how i was..(and we made plans while we were still together that we would go see a movie on the 4th of july even if we broke up.) Anyways, he texted me and i was very aloof and tried not to get...
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How did you know he/she was The One?
Posted Sunday July 5 2009, 2:54 pm
For people who are marrieed/engaged...
Did you know right away that the one you were going to marry was THE ONE or did it take time? I am 20 years old and have been dating a guy for about a year and a half and originally felt like he was the one, but now i question it. He does everything for me and cares so deeply for me and is hardpressed on marrying me. I used to feel this way too but now it seems those feelings have sizzled off a little bit. It would kill me to end it with him because I still feel strongly for him, but i find myself getting irritated with him so easily lately and im not sure if its just because im stressed with work and school or if im just bored with him. So did you know that your husband/wife/fiancee was...
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Is my same day to day schedule affecting relationship??
Posted Sunday July 5 2009, 2:46 pm
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and a half. Lately, I have been extremely irritable and dont want to talk to him or see him. Last year at school all I did was study (didnt go out, hang out with friends, he and I just studied so I could make it into medical school). So far this summer all I have done is work. I get one afternoon off a week, otherwise I work from 10am-midnight everyday... I have recently started feeling depressed and am not sure if it is birth control or if it is because im tired of everything being the same day after day. I am not sure whether or not my relationship is being affected because im bored of everything happening day to day or if I no longer have feelings for him. I am terrified to hurt hi...
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Am I out of line?
Posted Sunday July 5 2009, 10:41 am
Kay, so my boyfriend openly talks about girls he thinks are hot, and it sort of makes me feel awkward.
I wouldn't mind if he put it another way (e.g. 'I think *this girl* is pretty' or 'I think this girl is attractive) but he says it along the lines of "*THIS GIRL* IS SO GOD DAMN HOT" and it makes me feel awkward. He'll just bring it up too when it had nothing to do with the conversation...
e.g. I mentioned to him how I was always scared to bring home boyfriends because of my sister's good looks. He then said something along the lines of 'Oh she sounds hot' when he asked for a description of her. He also randomly went on about how "god damn hot" his friend's sister is... and just before I me...
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boyfriend, drinking, am i being weird about this??
Posted Sunday July 5 2009, 6:11 am
this is probably going to be super long.thanks SO much if you actually read the whole thing.
ok. so, a little background.
I am 19, my boyfriend is also 19. we have been dating for 3 years and want to be with each other..well, forever. we are very committed to each other. I am personally against underage drinking. i have never had a drop of alcohol in my life. i am scared of what i might do while under the influence.. i really don't want to embarrass myself.
My boyfriend has drank with his friends/groups of people before. i dont approve and i've told him that. the way things are..its like, .. him drinking is only something to do behind my back and he has a ton of fun and he likes to do it without me around becau...
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for guy's..or girls who can read guys well.
Posted Sunday July 5 2009, 2:08 am
okay..this is a really long story..and i'm sorry for such a long question..
okay..so me and this guy are kinda friends that are thrown together..cause our parents are best friends. he's older..but he's got a girlfriend and the last time i heard..maybe about two months ago..maybe more, he was in love with her. she's still in love with him..she plans on having kids with him..i'm not too sure about him though. so anyways..me and him are kinda friends..we text. and he's always really flirty with me..and it seems like he has feelings for me. the things he say..the way he acts..all this. he's always randomly texting me to ask what i'm doing. but he acts different at different times..like some nights he'll be all over me..other nigh...
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