i feel completely lost and hurt and i really dont know why i feel so bad. to start with im 16 yrs old. i really like this guy who is 17 lets call him alex. we have been friends for over 2months now and basically since day 1 we have been attracted to eachother. we have kissed etc and a few weeks ago he told me he really liked me. and i told him i really liked him too =]
any way the past few days he has been really moody with me. i have tried to speak to him about it but he either ignores me or says hes in a mood so doesnt want to talk.
his friends all say he likes me, and he just goes through phases where hes in a mood with people. i dont believe this though and i dont think he likes me. if you like someone you dont ignore them do you ?
do you think some guys are just like this ? also what should i do, i dont want to keep trying to talk to him if he is just going to ignore me ..
gr8fruit answered Wednesday July 8 2009, 12:16 am: Hey,
Yeah, it can seem difficult at first..
I think he is a lil moody,at the moment. Just as you have your bad days, he will have his,and when he does, you should try to give him his space, speak to him nicely, and tell him that when he is not in "the mood" to give you a call or message you so you can talk, just the two of you.
It may take time, but be patient, he may have a lot going on in his life at the moment or there is something he is just frustrated about in his life. He may also just be shy, and isnt ready or comfortable to confront you just yet.. He probably really doesnt want to ignore you,but when he sees you he freezes and loses his words.
Some guys are shy and ALL guys have thier "moody" days.
Give him time. But,while you do.. just keep polite, smile at him, and approach/talk to him slowly, until he is ready.
Good luck <3 [ gr8fruit's advice column | Ask gr8fruit A Question ]
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