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Question Posted Tuesday July 7 2009, 5:04 pm

hi my name is nichole nd i hve a boyfriend problem ill try to mske this short.i am 13 he is 14 we hve only seen each other once. wen we were together he was tlkin bout our future he plnned out our future together.nd wen he said he loved me i thought he meant dat nd da future he planned out was gonna cum true.did he realy mean it cause i thought he meant dat.it was a long distance relationship. me nd gerardo datz his name hve been datin for 3mnths he kept breakin up nd he kept askin me out again nd i kept sayin yes. He broke my heart. nd now he has a new gf named martha. he tells me wat they do nd evrytig is he tryin to hurt me?Me nd my ex used to be friends.bt now we arnt. nd wen we were friends. evn tho he had a gf he said he still luves me. nd my baby bro jus died nd i tld him nd he says i was lyin.nd im not he realy did die.soo my cousin tld him sumting. n now he wants to beat up my cousin dnt know wat to do!!! nd the crazy tin is i still love him!!

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Lianna25 answered Wednesday July 8 2009, 4:51 pm:
he is still too young to even know what he wants in the future or too even know what love is. He is obviously playing with your emotions and heart. you really need to move on as much as you say that you love him. that shouldnt be the reason to keep holding on, if he love you like he says, dont you think he would be with you now? Also, you are young as well, there are plenty of other guys out there. dont let this one guy bring you down. He is hurting you and doesnt care. You need to call it quit.

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ashmoe2 answered Wednesday July 8 2009, 12:41 am:
okay first if it was a long distance relatinship you cant really rely on it as stable. i dont mean to put down on your age but as young as you are you need to find someone around you. hormones are crazy and it will be hard to trust anyone from a distance. Long distance is damn near impossible to begin with, you have to be able to handle it.If hes far away dont worry about him beating up your cousin. If he is close enough to fight him then there isnt really anything you can do but try and talk him out of it. As for him telling you everything he does,its just a immature boys way of seeing if you still care and if he know that then hes trying to make you jealous

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