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makin out
ok i am 13 nd this guy i lyke is 14. me n him want to make out. ive kissed b4 i hve neva made out!! ik its dumb bt i want to make out wit him sum1 tell me how to!!!
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Wow, making out is east as 1 2 3. It's basically kissing, tongue is optional, it longer and usually open mouth. you touch a whole lot more and your eyes are closed. So in a nut shell. longer and more touching.
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Don't be nervous and don't think about it. If you think about it, you'll analyze every little detail and criticize every move you make.
Just go with the flow, like Jack said below. (Rhyming advice FTW!) But really, if you just take it slow and go with what he is doing, you'll be fine. I bet he's just as nervous as you! ;)
-Laura (17-f)
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I know this sounds really lame, and I'm sure it is ;]
But just go with the flow. I don't really have experience in how to "properly" kiss, nor do I have experience with kissing at all! Can you say prude? ;]
Anyway- if it's your boyfriend/girlfriend- just be honest with him/her. Tell them you're nervous and you don't really know what you're doing. Apparently the people who are less-experienced is a big turn-on to some people.
Do what you feel comfortable with. If something feels awkward or uncomfortable, don't do it. If it feels right, ask the person if they are okay with that, and if they are- then you'll be fine.
There really isn't a CORRECT way to do it. Everyone does what they are comfortable with.
From my weak experience- this is what I can tell you:
1. Don't come on strong- it's really awkward for the other person.
2. Don't slobber all over the other person.
3. Don't stick your tongue all the way down their throat.
My friend on here, Laura, answered a question similar to this, and she gave a great answer. I will copy her answer, but know that credit goes to her.
www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=542699
Honestly, you could read a book about it, and you'd probably forget everything once you went in for the kiss.
Explore. Do what feels right. Make it fun, playful, romantic, whatever you want it to be. Don't make it all about jamming your tongue down his throat, and try not to drool all over him, because it's generally less than desireable to do so.
If you come off as confident it'll be a lot more fun. If all evening you're thinking "Oh my gosh, this is going to be bad" you won't enjoy yourself. Follow his lead at first, if you're truly that nervous.
And really, it's almost impossible to find a truly bad kisser. If anything, they might do something you're not used to; give it a chance before you hate it. Who knows, he might be thinking the same thing right now about you!
Over time, you'll develop your own personal style of kissing/making out, and that's not a bad thing. Do whatever feels good/right to you, and gets a positive reaction. For example, some people love a gentle, or less than gentle, bite of the lip, "necking", and other techniques. Like I already said, experiment & make it fun!
From personal experience I'd advise that you brush your teeth and floss, and have some mild mints with you, like TicTacs. Fruity is usually good, and less overpowering. If you're at a party, don't worry too much about what you're eating if you're both eating the same things, but a huge plate of hummus & extra garlic is a bad choice right before kissing =P. That's where mints come in handy for both of you. Casually offer him one if he's been gorging on something stinky.
--Jack
(17/m)
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_ welllll. Iknow how you feel when i had my first hook up i had no idea what i was doing. Well its pretty simple just kiss him first they slip you tounge in his mouth not too far and then just move your tounge around thats it pretty much good luckk (; - toriiiii.
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dont stick your tongue to farr in and jusst gooo with itt. you will know what to do
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Okay, I'll share a secret that no one ever tells, when you're making out, slide your tongue up his nose and around his nostril, guys LOVE that.
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